I'm still not entirely convinced the problem doesn't lie in grounding somewhere between the monitor and the cable, since the problem doesn't exist with an adapter which suggests it is sorting it somehow (maybe because of how it terminates). I'm not an electrician, so eh, what do I know.
You may not be an electrician but your assumption appears to be... spot on!
Tonight when moving the PC into the kitchen to put on the table ready for investigating... I accidentally dropped the 4 way socket, thought nothing of it but when I switched it on to test it out after disconnecting the fans - I couldn't replicate the problem (with the first OCUK DP cable) despite messing around with it for 20 minutes.
Connected the fans back up - still no problem.
Tried the new DP cable from AliExpress - no problem either.
Connected the first OCUK DP cable again - problem back.
Switched the cable round so the plug that was in the PC is now in the monitor - no problem again.
(the reason I thought to try this was because I noticed the cable didn't lock into the motherboard and I'm fairly certain it was locked in when I first tried it)
So it looks like the OCUK DP cable is faulty at one end.
Then I moved the PC back into the living room and... the problem returned!
But this time I was on the ball, the 4 way connector - no problem after I dropped it when moving it... I whipped the back off
(obviously I switched it off and unplugged it first) and found that the screw for the earth wire was barely tightened.
Tightened the earth screw and as of the last hour - no more blank screens.
So it looks like the problem was a combination of a faulty cable at one end and my 4 way socket... when I plugged it directly into the mains to test it last week, I didn't think to plug the end from the monitor into the PC instead to see what happens.
Fault finding by dropping a 4 way adaptor sounds like something you'd see on a Lee Evans stand up DVD - so I'm going to keep playing around with the PC for a few days just to be sure the problem is definitely gone - fingers crossed
