It's obvious both sides have extremist elements, arguing otherwise is pointless.
These differences will never go away, intact it will only get worse with social media feeding each groups belief that they are right.
The paradox of tolerance, first described by Karl Popper in 1945, is a decision theoryparadox. The paradox states that if a society is tolerant without limit, their ability to be tolerant will eventually be seized or destroyed by the intolerant. Popper came to the seemingly paradoxical conclusion that in order to maintain a tolerant society, the society must be intolerant of intolerance.