OK, so... [WARNING if you don't like pathetic posts/threads, close now!]
I've just broken up with a boyfriend of 3 months, who I took about 3 weeks to get with after a boyfriend of 2 years, who himself I got with only about a month or so after a boyfriend of 3 years (!).
What can I say, I guess I work fast. I'm no stunner, no slapper, no chaser - but these things happen. Don't regret any of them.
Anyway, back to the point - for the first time in forever, I have a crush on someone! As opposed to someone nice just turning up at the right time. I've had a soft spot for this one since I met him really, but it became more of a crush in Jan/Feb when he popped up in a few dreams where he kissed me (while I was still with the ex-ex, whoops).
He's always been a mate, in our group we've gone out on the town together, drunk quiet pints together, he's often come into my (uni hall) room for a natter, and vice versa. I've had a sneaking suspicion he might like me from time to time, depends how confident I'm feeling...
I thought he was leaving town, so I found another boyfriend (the now ex, not because of this, though), but now it turns out now he'll be sticking around for 2 or 3 years!
He isn't back in town now for another two weeks, then it's off-and-on until uni term starts, I think. We're going to be living in the same house for a year - convenient but could be difficult if it goes wrong...
OK that's all the background (still with me? Good).
Now my question to all you lads is:
If you were him, and I was someone you maybe didn't think too hard about but probably wouldn't say no to, which of the following would you prefer?
A) Me coming straight out with it: "I fancy you, want to go out?"
B) Slowly but surely increasing my time around you, making the odd innuendo, getting close on the sofa when watching telly, getting to know you more and you me more... Until it gets to the point where a flirty comment or hug just tips it over the edge and it turns into kissing.
I'm leaning towards B, because I think it sounds dead romantic and hopefully tensions will be running so high that the kiss will be amazing...
...where's the blushing smiley when you need it...
I've just broken up with a boyfriend of 3 months, who I took about 3 weeks to get with after a boyfriend of 2 years, who himself I got with only about a month or so after a boyfriend of 3 years (!).
What can I say, I guess I work fast. I'm no stunner, no slapper, no chaser - but these things happen. Don't regret any of them.
Anyway, back to the point - for the first time in forever, I have a crush on someone! As opposed to someone nice just turning up at the right time. I've had a soft spot for this one since I met him really, but it became more of a crush in Jan/Feb when he popped up in a few dreams where he kissed me (while I was still with the ex-ex, whoops).
He's always been a mate, in our group we've gone out on the town together, drunk quiet pints together, he's often come into my (uni hall) room for a natter, and vice versa. I've had a sneaking suspicion he might like me from time to time, depends how confident I'm feeling...
I thought he was leaving town, so I found another boyfriend (the now ex, not because of this, though), but now it turns out now he'll be sticking around for 2 or 3 years!
He isn't back in town now for another two weeks, then it's off-and-on until uni term starts, I think. We're going to be living in the same house for a year - convenient but could be difficult if it goes wrong...
OK that's all the background (still with me? Good).
Now my question to all you lads is:
If you were him, and I was someone you maybe didn't think too hard about but probably wouldn't say no to, which of the following would you prefer?
A) Me coming straight out with it: "I fancy you, want to go out?"
B) Slowly but surely increasing my time around you, making the odd innuendo, getting close on the sofa when watching telly, getting to know you more and you me more... Until it gets to the point where a flirty comment or hug just tips it over the edge and it turns into kissing.
I'm leaning towards B, because I think it sounds dead romantic and hopefully tensions will be running so high that the kiss will be amazing...
...where's the blushing smiley when you need it...
