Bride jokes entirely off limits for groom's speech?

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Hi all

I'm getting married in three weeks and I wanted to know your thoughts on this one.

Common belief seems to be that absolutely no jokes should be made about the bride in the wedding speeches, particularly by the groom, however I took a picture the other day that I want to blow up and use as a prop in my groom's speech.

It's a picture of our bed, and shows all kinds of womanly junk on one side of the bed (shoes, clothes, creams, bras etc.) and the other side perfectly clear. Was going to take votes on whose side was whose, make a quip about the difference between the sexes but we still make a great team, she's been much more organised that this for the wedding, etc. etc..

I'm sure she wouldn't burst into tears and would find it amusing, but don't want to raise eyebrows - do you think this is acceptable?
 
i can't seem the problem in comparing dressing room tables? It's hardly like you're saying "by the way love, you bum looks fat in that white dress of yours".
 
The worst that could happen is that you wouldn't get laid on your wedding night.

Which would be quite comical. :p
 
Gaijin said:
The worst that could happen is that you wouldn't get laid on your wedding night.

Which would be quite comical. :p
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Not for me :D.

Anyway for starters I'm going to ditch the voting idea as I think it's just be uncomfortable and weird. I'll probably use it to say how fantastic she was organising the wedding.
 
knip said:
Speaking from a womans point of view, id find it bloody hilarious!
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But you're from the internet, your judgement is already questionable;) :p


I think it depends entirely on the people involved, some people might find it hilarious but others might think it completely unsuitable and be offended by it.
 
Robbie G said:
Hi all

I'm getting married in three weeks and I wanted to know your thoughts on this one.

Common belief seems to be that absolutely no jokes should be made about the bride in the wedding speeches, particularly by the groom, however I took a picture the other day that I want to blow up and use as a prop in my groom's speech.

It's a picture of our bed, and shows all kinds of womanly junk on one side of the bed (shoes, clothes, creams, bras etc.) and the other side perfectly clear. Was going to take votes on whose side was whose, make a quip about the difference between the sexes but we still make a great team, she's been much more organised that this for the wedding, etc. etc..

I'm sure she wouldn't burst into tears and would find it amusing, but don't want to raise eyebrows - do you think this is acceptable?
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You are not allowed to upset the bride in any way on her wedding day. Don't go there. You hoping to consumate the marriage that night? Don't do it then! :) If someone embarressed you in front of a room of people, how would you feel ?

Best man should ALWAYS take the p1$$ out of the groom though! ;)

(I'm married and I have been a best man too)
 
But its meant to be a joke, and surely she will see it that way?

You know your bride to be best, and so its up to you I suppose to know what she would find funny (or not) as I already said though i'd think it was funny, people are too regimented about weddings if you ask me.
 
I agree that people are too regimented. But I also think it is completely inappropriate to **** the bride on her wedding day. The whole day is about her. Give her one day of being nothing but the adored centre of attention.
 
knip said:
But its meant to be a joke, and surely she will see it that way?

You know your bride to be best, and so its up to you I suppose to know what she would find funny (or not) as I already said though i'd think it was funny, people are too regimented about weddings if you ask me.
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its a big risk to take, even if the bride does find it funny it may upset some of her close family which in turn will upset the bride


i wouldnt take that chance, not worth the earache lol
 
Traditionally it is a massive no-no. The entire day is supposed to be you praising and parading your new wife, not taking the mick.

But in reality it all depends on how well you think it'll be received by all.
 
if you think she'll find it funny, do it. Its harmless, a bit of fun and not exactly slagging her off. Tradition has its place, but it shouldnt come in the way of harmless memorable moments.
 
Don't say anything bad about your bride, the only person that can take the michael is her father. Don't try too hard to be funny either, the groom isn't supposed to be the entertainer. A good dose of wit doesn't go a miss though.
Just my two cents.
 
I got married 3 weeks ago and I made fun about everyone, including the missus & everyone thought it was superb.

At the end of the day, you'll know wheter she'll find it funny or not. If you think he will, do it. Simple as that.
 
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