Bro Code - Was this against it?

Freefaller · 9 May 2012 at 10:56

Now make sure you get the GUM clinic! :eek:

robgmun · 9 May 2012 at 10:58

Sounds like a right ****. Get yourself tested, your friend might have the last laugh

Zefan · 9 May 2012 at 11:01

paullewis323 · 9 May 2012 at 11:05

You done nothing wrong dude

She started it and made it clear to your mate she wasn't interested

That's Life

Simples

Lew

bledd · 9 May 2012 at 11:08

Zefan..

Pate · 9 May 2012 at 11:27

accuse her of rape.

You were drunk after all, and according to hurfderp, that's rape.

Unless he only meant women. But he's an equalist, so surely not!

ZXSpectrum · 9 May 2012 at 11:27

Davepen said:
Thanks for all the input guys, was really helpful.

For anyone interested I'll conclude.

When I saw him yesterday he actually apologised to me.

Apparently this girl has done this to him before, she leads him on, then sleeps with someone close to him.

He was obviously a bit upset by it all but we man-hugged, I apologised, and we should be good now.

Don't think either of us will be seeing that girl any time soon tho, which is a shame as they seemed to have a good friendship...

But then I suppose is one side of a friendship wants a relationship, and the other doesn't, it wont ever work :/

But at least we are still bros Thanks for all the good advice.

And yeah....

'worst "I just had sex" thread ever'

Nice one.. She sounds like a great "Friend" to do that to someone that she obviously knows has feelings for her and on more than one occasion :rolleyes:

. The both of you are best off rid of her!

DiCe! · 9 May 2012 at 11:29

PLAYAAAAA!

arknor · 9 May 2012 at 11:31

Skyline said:
Nice one.. She sounds like a great "Friend" to do that to someone that she obviously knows has feelings for her and on more than one occasion . The both of you are best off rid of her!

maybe she cares for this friend so much so she wont sleep wiht him and pass on the aids.

Davepen · 9 May 2012 at 11:31

Skyline said:
Nice one.. She sounds like a great "Friend" to do that to someone that she obviously knows has feelings for her and on more than one occasion . The both of you are best off rid of her!

I actually spoke to her yesterday about the situation, and she played the "Oh I had no idea he was interested in me! :eek:

" card. Lol. Women can be so evil.

[FnG]magnolia · 9 May 2012 at 11:35

You all sound like terrible people.

The skank, the no hoper and the Quagmire.

Stoner81 · 9 May 2012 at 11:48

Davepen said:
I actually spoke to her yesterday about the situation, and she played the "Oh I had no idea he was interested in me! " card. Lol. Women can be so evil.

UTTER GARBAGE! Women do know when guys are in to them (most of the time anyway) and your m8 has said that she has pulled this stunt before.

Stick her back on a street corner where she belongs.

Stoner81.

PS - Women are evil, period!

krooton · 9 May 2012 at 11:48

[FnG]magnolia;21872129 said:
You all sound like terrible people.

The skank, the no hoper and the Quagmire.

lol

chriscubed · 9 May 2012 at 12:02

Davepen said:
He was obviously a bit upset by it all but we man-hugged, I apologised, and we should be good now.

Good outcome. IMO you didn't break the bro code as she was never going to get with him.

Zefan said:
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You magnificent *******.... I was going to post that!

Davepen said:
I actually spoke to her yesterday about the situation, and she played the "Oh I had no idea he was interested in me! " card. Lol. Women can be so evil.

BS. She knows.

Vidar · 9 May 2012 at 12:08

He is your friend, do him a favour and make him realise he needs to man up about it... Situations like this always happen; I've had it happen to me and inadvertently or intentionally I've done it to others

Only reason I would be ****** off with you is if you lied about it or have said in the past you wouldn't go there cause you know how he feels, that would then be about you and a betrayal of trust

no_1_dave · 9 May 2012 at 12:13

You should form a relationship with her.
This way your mate will see it was more then a **** and will end up accepting that you two are an item. Once he accepts this he will be more grown up about it and you can put it behind you. This is assuming you like her enough to have a relationship with her...

Davepen · 9 May 2012 at 12:20

no_1_dave said:
You should form a relationship with her.
This way your mate will see it was more then a **** and will end up accepting that you two are an item. Once he accepts this he will be more grown up about it and you can put it behind you. This is assuming you like her enough to have a relationship with her...

To be honest, that is the worst thing I could do.

It's much better off as a one night thing rather than anything long term, if I struck up a relationship with her it would be a whole lot worse.

And to be honest, altho she is pretty hot, she gets around quite a bit, so not relationship material.

[FnG]magnolia · 9 May 2012 at 12:39

So even though you knew your friend liked her you had sex with her whilst not considering her relationship material?

You can probably answer your own question in the OP.

no_1_dave · 9 May 2012 at 12:56

Davepen said:
To be honest, that is the worst thing I could do.

It's much better off as a one night thing rather than anything long term, if I struck up a relationship with her it would be a whole lot worse.

And to be honest, altho she is pretty hot, she gets around quite a bit, so not relationship material.

If she was relationship material and you wanted to give a relationship a try then it is acceptable however if you knew she wasn't relationship material and you went ahead anyway knowing your mate liked her then yea, that is a bit harsh.

wildman · 9 May 2012 at 12:57

He is just jealous that your man servant got to sample the wares...........