Broke up with bf

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OCdt Stringy said:
omgs, a girl on *** interweb!

[hitting on mode]
I'm from near Surrey, I like to consider myself a very eligible bachelor, and we're of similar age. What do ya say you let me take it from here and ease your worries ;)
[/hitting on mode]

On a more serious note: He sounds like a right tool, and you're well rid of him to be honest. Weigh up the pros and cons of getting rid of him and you'll realise how good it is that you're no longer with him.

Time is a great healer, you'll get through it.
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similar age? interesting when my age isn't stated :p

okay looking at the previous meets i would not fit in. im VERY shy and would probably end up boring people
 
secretspy said:
similar age? interesting when my age isn't stated :p

okay looking at the previous meets i would not fit in. im VERY shy and would probably end up boring people
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Birthday:
7th Jan 1985

Public profile correct?

Burnsy
 
Pebbles said:
The friends are already there! Do it, you wont regret it
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Octamagon and Pebs speak the truth! I have only been to the Liverpool meet, but when I went I was having probs with friends in London and really needed to get away...

Seriously, meets are always full of first timers - u don't need to bring a mate, everyone is friendly enough :) add me to msn - so you will already have a friend before you even get there ;)

Can also bore you with my bloke problems... unfortunately the crying is inevitable, one of those things you get out of your system and if you are more sad than happy in a relationship then you have to make the right decision and it sounds like you have (keep quiet Pebs :rolleyes: )

Anyway if you wanna chat add my msn, sometimes its easier to talk to people who are removed from the situation :)

Hope you are ok *hugs*

BB x
 
sr4470 said:
BB speaks the truth. :)

Edit: Whats he saying secretspy?
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mainly burping. hes so disgusting. we are discussing stuff in our flat that we are selling as i needed to find something of mine earlier and I think he took it
 
secretspy said:
mainly burping. hes so disgusting. we are discussing stuff in our flat that we are selling as i needed to find something of mine earlier and I think he took it
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By all means make sure you're getting whats yours back out of it.
 
sr4470 said:
By all means make sure you're getting whats yours back out of it.
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oh my god he is so stupid

we bought a dining room table and chairs for £50. paid £25 each

and i said "my mum wants to buy it for the same price and said because you owe me £30 she should give me the £50 and you dont get half your share"

and he said "ok you get £30 and i get £20 so I said how do you work that out if we are both owed £25 then you owe me £30 so i take the £25 that would have gone to you

then he was saying have i e-mailed a list over etc. which i have done and he kept saying in a chav tone "yea well i'll sort it out"

then he was questioning why my mum was paying the price we bought it for and i said well she is trying to help me out
"yea well i dont have a job"

not my problem that he owes people money!!!
pfft waste of space!
 
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Are you at the point where your wondering what you ever saw in him?

Make sure your not short changed and don't give him sympathy for 'not having a job'

Burnsy
 
when i went to the flat to pick some stuff up (cos we have both moved back home with our parents)

he had been there earlier and left a note with an envelope saying

"kaz,

can you post this for me, i ran out of stamps cos i used the last one on a letter to the surrey police. thanks, lewi "

how cheeky is that. i told my mum to leave it but she picked it up and said she only had 2nd class stamps. when i just told him that he went "WHY SECOND CLASS? WHY IS IT CHEEKY? WHATEVER !"
 
burnsy2023 said:
Are you at the point where your wondering what you ever saw in him?

Make sure your not short changed and don't give him sympathy for 'not having a job'

Burnsy
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yes i think i am at that point. i think now ive started to sort myself out the blinkers have come off and ive seen everything in a different way.

i dont want to date a chav anymore! i didnt like his family either
 
From what you've said, he really does sound like a right chav.

I suppose your excuse is that everyone in love is blind.

At least you have a new beginning. good luck with everything.

Burnsy
 
burnsy2023 said:
From what you've said, he really does sound like a right chav.

I suppose your excuse is that everyone in love is blind.

At least you have a new beginning. good luck with everything.

Burnsy
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thanks Burnsy
 
Sounds like your better off without him, it's a shame that you had to go through so much but he didn't make the most of the second chance you gave him. Try to move on, try to have no contact with him so at least you don't hurt as much as you do now.

I'm doing the no contact thing at the moment, GF dumped me like a pile of poop on Tuesday out of the blue. Hurts like hell, bloody women.
 
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