Arsey said:Thanks owen, so the first one is called a photo to 3.5 jack convertor and the second one is called a 3.5 coupler?
phono not photo lol

You will no doubt find it on a AV website so once on that use their search for coupler. (or 3.5mm coupler).
There jobs a good 'un.
Also if you right click on the images I posted above (and then properties) you will see they are from a website/shop that is of the AV type (so not a competitor).