Cheating Ex.. how would you react to this?

Meh I'd just ignore the pair of them, all this be a better man and shake his hand is frankly a load of rubbish. After what she's put you through, I'd just ignore the pair of them even if he comes up and tries to shake your hand...I'd just walk away really.


And who cares if it or isn't acceptable, don't give a flying fig what others might think. You are entitled to feel the way you feel.
 
You are there for the Christening of your friend's daughter.
Deal and speak with them, ignore the ex and whoever she is with.
Just ignore, speak with whoever you like for as long as you like, then leave when you like.

If they come up to you all chatty, then politely decline to speak to them. Simply state, 'i'd rather not speak with either of you, as this day isn't about eithr of you, and I have nothing I wish to say to you, good day.'
Then move on and speak to someone else.
 
First choice is to bail on the event. Life's too short to put up with this sort of nonsense. If you really feel you need to show your face, then just ignore your ex and her partner. Walk away from them if you have to. If you're really cornered, just say "I've got nothing to say to you" and walk away. Keep to the absolute minimum interaction so that you don't have to even have to think about them, let alone deal with them. You owe them nothing.

All the mind-games suggestions are funny and all, but you're obviously still angered by the betrayal. You've got to stay in a zen frame of mind that tells you these people simply don't matter to you in any way at all.
 
If you don't feel comfortable or confident enough to go, i'd avoid the christening and explain the situation to your friend, i'm sure he'll understand. If you've got the confidence, i'd shake his hand, i'd hug her, i would put on such a facade of happiness and confidence that it would come across as what they did never touched you as a person, they're aren't worthy of bitterness, resentment & anger, be the biggest boss there & don't hold the grudge. **Fully star swear words next time - EVH** ave it!!!!!


ps..that doesn't mean you need to talk to them for 20 mins or something, do the small talk and get back to your proper friends. :)
 
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I'm with Bainbridge, get on with your life. Treat them like any other two people you couldn't care less about and enjoy yourself with your new partner.
 
Vargas said:
"and my ex is going to be there with the young lad (now her fiancé) and their son."
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What does that have to do with stretch marks? How did your girlfriend avoid stretch marks by having a caesarian? They don't appear from someone pushing hard during birth haha
 
Pay close attention to the kid. Blank them both. Simples!

Also, Looking surprised when you see her and saying 'Christ you've let yourself......oh, er hi, how are you doing?' :D
 
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