Cheating

rishy said:
one of the message i read was this

Im really sorry XXXXXX but i cnt do this anymore we r kiddin ourselves if something is gna happen. I love u so much but i dnt c a way forward. We just go around im circles and we r hurting so many people in the interim. We r lying hidin 2 see eachother. We cnt do this. 7 years later n we r in the same position. Im sorry please dnt hate im so upset right now that i cnt bare 2 fink that u wont b in my life. Im sorry

so i confronted her and showed the message on the computer and she denied it saying i was sending this message for my friend to break up with his gf

she doesnt know that ive installed this software on her phone nor that i tracked her at the park

and now we are fighting again and dont know what to do next

she said that she doesnt trust me anymore and to have a think about what ive done
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shes been cheating. she or him has called it off. shes lied that was a txt message from her conversation with somebody.
and now shes done what women like to do when caught out, shes turned it around and says she doesnt trust you! haha. and to think what youve done.. what the hell. you did the right thing checking up on her.. now you know for sure.
and she says shes only with you because you have a daughter...
you really want to be with someone thats cheated (for possibly 7years) and doesnt want you?

shes a dirty little cheating liar! throw her out now :mad:
 
Burnsy2023 said:
Trust in a relationship is everything. Once the ship has sailed it rarely returns.
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Yup been there & done that, once the trust is gone im afraid it's finished, especially if neither one of you trusts the other, it's nigh on impossible to come back from that kind of a relationship breakdown.
 
zipp0r said:
shes been cheating. she or him has called it off. shes lied that was a txt message from her conversation with somebody.
and now shes done what women like to do when caught out, shes turned it around and says she doesnt trust you!
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Exactly this, even if he had confronted her she would have lied through her back teeth.
 
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There is more to this. There has to be.

One argument and you are hacking her email and tracking her phone?
 
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try and get proof (legally) don't say anything about the dogy things you've done (this will be very bad for you). as this can help you with custody/assets

get advice from a solicitor and start taking steps to ensure the divorce favors you and your daughter.
 
It's funny isn't it (not ha-ha funny). The vast majority of people I know, their parents split up while they were children, often before secondary school.

Guess people are just in a hurry to have kids, then the relationship fails a few short years after, leaving the kids stuck in the middle of (often messy) separations.

Who knows what this is doing to our society. Lack of stable upbringing for kids these days, having no father around, etc. It must be having some effect.
 
FoxEye said:
It's funny isn't it (not ha-ha funny). The vast majority of people I know, their parents split up while they were children, often before secondary school.

Guess people are just in a hurry to have kids, then the relationship fails a few short years after, leaving the kids stuck in the middle of (often messy) separations.

Who knows what this is doing to our society. Lack of stable upbringing for kids these days, having no father around, etc. It must be having some effect.
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what ifind strange is when i was in school kids had both parents, now im back with some younger lads in college for my apprenticeship there are 3 of us i na class of 16 with both parents still together...

my parents are in their 60's though lol
 
Tefal said:
try and get proof (legally) don't say anything about the dogy things you've done (this will be very bad for you). as this can help you with custody/assets

get advice from a solicitor and start taking steps to ensure the divorce favors you and your daughter.
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If he takes my advice, as hard as it is, there should be no need for all this custody/assest stuff.

act like adults, not children and it'll all work out in the end :)
 
^The 'problem' is that kids take ages to grow up (18yrs) and most couples wait a few years at least before having kids. This means for a relationship to last until the kids grow up it needs to be typically at least 20-25 yrs which is a long time (even to get to secondary school age is likely 15yrs or so). Especially given the impact that children can have on a relationship (taking the focus away from the couple).

I suspect that 'biologically' humans are only really 'supposed to' care for their kids until their early teens and that men in particular are not necessary supposed to be in monogamous relationships. There is less stigma associated with divorce/seperation these days so these breakups are perhaps not that unexpected.

Anyway back to the OP sadly if you have resorted to digitally stalking your wife on a persistent basis (and I'm not going to judge you for doing so) then it doesn't bode well as you will forever be wondering what she is up to.
 
Sounds like this relationship has been over for a vvvvvvery long time. Classic case of "stay together for the kids" shame everyone (including the kids) usually end up miserable and hating the situation.

Be adults about it and break up. Don't be a **** to her regardless of what's happened. She's the mother of ur kids after all and there's no point dragging it out any longer and making a fuss over what's already happened and the likes.
 
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