Cheating

Allnamestaken said:
I am just giving alternate opinions don't bite me for it.
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you have to be very careful asking for relationship advice on a computer forum because some people are so desperate for a partner but due to their lack of social skills struggle to get one.

but they happily give out advice on a forum about how you should stay together as if you are "desperate"


7 years of cheating = not a relationship at all , a relationship should be built on mutual respect and love.

in special circumstances they can recover but not from so many years of infidelity there's a difference between a small fling and a long term relationship with someone other than your partner.

if I were you I would track her and the next time she is at a carpark dogging or whatever she does turn up tap on the window and at least be man enough to knock the other guy clean out and walk away.

the disrespect he has shown to you certainly can not go unrewarded.

I bet the thing is the other guy doesn't want to take her on anyway and he's just using her for sex, as she said
"We just go around im circles and we r hurting so many people in the interim. We r lying hidin 2 see eachother. We cnt do this. 7 years later n we r in the same position"
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he clearly does not actually want her as an actual partner just someone he can bed when he feels like it and she is a big enough fool to let it happen for 7 years.

alternatively you could turn up and give him your blessing , shake his hand and say "good luck to you both" your missus will be shocked as hell :D
the other guy likely doesn't want her anyway as I already said :D
sit back and enjoy single life
 
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arknor said:
you have to be very careful asking for relationship advice on a computer forum because some people are so desperate for a partner but due to their lack of social skills struggle to get one.

but they happily give out advice on a forum about how you should stay together as if you are "desperate"


7 years of cheating = not a relationship at all , a relationship should be built on mutual respect and love.

in special circumstances they can recover but not from so many years of infidelity there's a difference between a small fling and a long term relationship with someone other than your partner.

if I were you I would track her and the next time she is at a carpark dogging or whatever she does turn up tap on the window and at least be man enough to knock the other guy clean out and walk away.

the disrespect he has shown to you certainly can not go unrewarded
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I agree about the advice giving, being a wet lettuce really does not get men anywhere these days unfortunately.

a lot of people give advice as if they were taking pointers straight out of a romance movie where declaring undying love for a cheating partner guaranteed there trust back.

This is the real world however and people are a lot more cruel as I am sure you would agree.
 
glen8 said:
If people could somehow get a magic password which unlocks all computer accounts, facebook, phones etc etc I think they would be in shock
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which is sometimes ignorance is bliss... people do cheat its a fact of life but the very occasional slip up is one thing, 7 years however is another level!
 
Rich1988 said:
which is sometimes ignorance is bliss... people do cheat its a fact of life but the very occasional slip up is one thing, 7 years however is another level!
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To be honest, yes. To be having an affair that long doesn't seem right.
Although, how can someone be having an affair for 7 years without making any mistakes, or being found out :eek:

Let's just say this. If my wife was having an affair, I would take some of the blame myself. If things weren't right at home them that's both of our faults. ok, cheating is very bad and you should end the relationship first. You know what though, life isn't a text book. If it was a mistake, I could forgive over time. Some relationships are worth saving. 7 Years is on another level however.

We do live in a throw away culture though
 
Allnamestaken said:
I agree about the advice giving, being a wet lettuce really does not get men anywhere these days unfortunately.

a lot of people give advice as if they were taking pointers straight out of a romance movie where declaring undying love for a cheating partner guaranteed there trust back.

This is the real world however and people are a lot more cruel as I am sure you would agree.
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yea I gave an alternate possibility in an edit if he's not alpha at all. :D

glen8 said:
If people could somehow get a magic password which unlocks all computer accounts, facebook, phones etc etc I think they would be in shock
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my ex uses the same password for everything and never had anything to hide from me.

not all women will cheat, we are still good friends
 
There is no evidence she's been cheating for 7 years. It may be that she met someone 20 years ago, fell in love, it went back and forth until 7 years ago when they stopped. Then she met OP, had a kid, got married etc. He returns to the scene looking to rekindle things and they exchange texts and express feelings for one another and she calls a day on it.

In conclusion:

* No reason to assume it's being going on for 7 years.
* No reason to assume she's 'cheated' in the carnal sense.
* Confrontation needed to establish the facts.
 
Thompson_NCL said:
There is no evidence she's been cheating for 7 years. It may be that she met someone 20 years ago, fell in love, it went back and forth until 7 years ago when they stopped. Then she met OP, had a kid, got married etc. He returns to the scene looking to rekindle things and they exchange texts and express feelings for one another and she calls a day on it.

In conclusion:

* No reason to assume it's being going on for 7 years.
* No reason to assume she's 'cheated' in the carnal sense.
* Confrontation needed to establish the facts.
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Yeah, but that's not sensational and won't satisfy GD's lust for a lurid story of sex, deceit and dogging.
 
Pics are needed to determine whether the OP's Missus is ripe for the picking or naturally avoidable (couldn't think of a better way of saying it :D)

I find a simple equation can be applied - according to the ((woman in question x rideabilty + potential)) Will give you the answer you require.
 
Thompson_NCL said:
]In conclusion:

* No reason to assume it's being going on for 7 years.
* No reason to assume she's 'cheated' in the carnal sense.
* Confrontation needed to establish the facts.
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In GD conclusion:

* It's being going on since she before she first met him.
* She's 'cheated' in the carnal sense and any other way you could think of.
* Confrontation needed to make thread epic.
 
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