I don't understand why anyone would have an issue with their partner knowing where they are, I wouldn't care if my GF tracked my phone, infact we have Cerberus installed on both our phones under a single login that we both know, we could track each other if we wished, neither of us care.
I don't understand why anyone would have an issue with their partner knowing where they are, I wouldn't care if my GF tracked my phone, infact we have Cerberus installed on both our phones under a single login that we both know, we could track each other if we wished, neither of us care.
Well i went into work today and spoke to the manager about this, she has always been a good listener ( No i dont fancy her, she double my age) also spoke to the union rep we have about getting free legal advise he has put me in touch with a solicitor that act for the union.
I want to get more physical evidence inc photos, also from what im aware of this person he has been on the wrong side of the law a few times( just say a fair few hire cars) . I need to know this for sure as it might help with custody
I wont even post today text messages it gets worse
Also what i saw today was that she had now deleted every message from him
on the sunday night we talked said that there is no trust and that how did i get the message, i blagged it to say that i put a temporary password in her phone when she passed her phone to me. Not telling her that the software was still on there.
That night, i was so upset and drank 1/2 lt of vodka because if i did get it all wrong ive spoilt everything, or what if it was right and she has been cheating on me. and went to sleep about 2am
She went to work on the monday at 4am, i woke up about 5am just couldnt sleep
Cant write any more just to upset at the moment
Went down stairs and started texting her saying im sorry for sccusing her and forgive me, lets move forward from this and work something out. And that saying that i still love her.
But then my curiosity said lets she whats she doing has she contacted him again ??
Well
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on the phone for over two hours to him
i then looked at the texts messages
that night he text back saying
Wots happnd? Y u bein lyk that
and in the morning i can see all my text messages and more from him and her saying
one the text i send was
I love you and will never stop loving you and don't know what I would do with out you in my life I know it was not love at first site for you but I will do anything to stay with you
and she forwarded my text to him and the reply was (W wife / C Cheater)
(C)
Wot u mean it was luv at first sight for me maybe nt for u. It was lyk a movie this gorgus girl walks in and is walkin towards me my hearts beatin n i fink im in a dream abt to faint.
(C)
Meanin fink before u talk n watch wot u say
(W)
I neva sent that msg tramp he sent it to me just now lol
(C)
Oh i fought u sed that to me n u was jokin. Lol. Say buy me a g6 jet then or jump of a cliff lol
(C)
Lol
(C)
Im being serious
(C)
Was it luv at first sight for u
(W)
No
(C)
So am i either way ur rich
(W)
Wt shall i do. What do u think i should do now
(W)
What u on bot
(C)
Im on abt wen did u knw u luvd me? Talk to ur mom see wot she says. Wiv him talk n see wot the options r in terms wot u gna do wiv DAUGHTER, if u sell up or kip the house, wot to do 1st n wen? Or do u jus stay as it is
(W)
He wants to stay together n fix it. I knew i lovednu straight away. What shall i do.
Well that night we were talking and and it lead in to what we would do if we split up and i said split and go out separate ways and what to do with our daugter and said i dont know
She then went on saying i earn enough to take over the house and that for me to move out and when i asked about our daughter she said stay with me and i wont stop you seeing her. and she said you can carry on picking her up from nusery and scholl till i get back from work, which is less then 2 hours a day, i then said that ive been with her every day of her life and tossed it to her saying that if you saw her 2 hours a day would you be happy her reply " Thats not going to happen"
if it's an iPhone, you can use dr wondershare for iOS to access all her sms and iMessage texts without even having the phone. You just need her iCloud password. You can also see all the pics on the phone, again even deleted ones.
if it's an Android you need the phone for 10 mins to grab the texts (again inc deleted ones)
I'm 45 and I could. It's only a primitive pidgin. If you pretend you're semiliterate in English, so you can only understand very simple English and can only read out loud, it's possible to dumb down far enough to understand it.
Come to think of it, I think calling it pidgin is giving it more credit than it deserves. Pidgins serve a very useful purpose, are more complex than this mess and are always a second language. This is just a mutilated mess of a simplified subset of English and it serves no purpose.
This is not the time to be an idiot gangsta. It's never time to be an idiot gangsta, but when you stand to lose your home and your child it's even less so than usual. Nor is it time to be a medieval aristocrat, or more accurately the Victorian romanticised version of one, for the same reason. They'd use the word 'honour', but with the same meaning.
This is the time to be calm and sensible and seek legal advice. And I mean legal advice from someone qualified to give it, not from a random selection of unqualified people here.
The OP is already at a massive disadvantage because the system is hugely biased against fathers. Acting like an utter tool, strutting about demanding "respect" and responding aggressively to any perceived lack of it, will only make things worse for him.
So what if she doesn't respect him? He knows that already. It wouldn't make any difference if she made an orgy porno with a dozen other people in their home and put it on pornhub. That's not his problem. How a person behaves reflects on that person, not on other people.
Wow, sorry to hear this OP. It's a nightmare situation I think most modern men are now afraid of finding themselves in. Things like this truly put me off ever getting married myself.
I apologise if I'm about to be blunt, but it's borne of kindness.
Your wife from the picture you've painted isn't the person you married. Or rather, she may well be but your idea of her isn't the reality. She's a toxic, conceited, manipulative person. But it also seems as if she's being led by this third-party. She has indicated intent to screw you further for her gain and these are not the actions of someone who cares for you.
She's shown you enormous disrespect and disregard through both her words and actions. It's time to be the man she so clearly thinks you're not and start putting things in motion. There is nothing to save here, it's already over.
Hold it together. There'll be plenty of time to feel sorry for yourself later. Right now, you need to seek good legal advice and make sure that you get custody and keep your assets. She's made her bed, so she can lie in it.
Resist the urge to be self-destructive. Right now you must be the best friend you've ever had and move the pieces in your favour. Don't tell her anything, just play dumb.
I've been getting a little tired of the whole "why are you asking an internet forum lol" rebuttal lately, but in your particular case it really runs true. Use us to vent by all means, but ignore everything else.
Go and seek legal advice NOW before she screws you further.
No it wouldn't. Blame is not a deciding factor in custody or division of assets. There is no punishment for having an affair. The only thing that changes is how quickly you can get a divorce.
True, blame and fault are not important in a divorce court, if your looking for justice there it won't happen.
All a divorce court care about is the child really, they will make sure that the child has a decent home to live in and that you agree to pay enough to raise that child.
Keep your head, don't let your temper speak. This women will be your key to seeing your daughter until she is 16 so accept that the relationship is finished and agree how its going to end, if she wants to move out then let her do it. Try and sort out what is going to happen before you move out, its actually best for you if she moves out as if you leave her with the house its very unlikely you will keep that house in divorce, even more of a burn when she moves that bloke in.
No it wouldn't. Blame is not a deciding factor in custody or division of assets. There is no punishment for having an affair. The only thing that changes is how quickly you can get a divorce.
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