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I know I'm opening not so much a can of worms as more a bucket of eels but...
I'm currently single, have been since around Aug last year, I've got two distinct paths before me and find myself stuck between a rock and hard place, I do expect to get the usual smattering of off the cuff answers but I reckon there's going to be some sound advice as well.
It all boils down to the fact that I like two women, both got all the qualities you could hope for in a partner, both got great senses of humour, intelligent, attractive etc..
I really do find it had to separate, my feelings for them, we're all capable of getting close to more than one person, I know either is going to be a gamble as all relationships are, there are no certainties with anything in this life.
The only real factor I could call it on is location, one lives about 10 miles away which for me is a nice distance, you can do the whole casual let's have a day out without planning it, the other lives 100 miles away and if it developed into a serious relationship I would have to relocate, we'd probably get to see each other once every two weeks or so what with work etc. but I don't want to make a decision based on where someone lives, it's too cold and calculating for me.
I've been pretty close to them both for about two months now, we speak and chat online pretty often, have met them both for a coffee and a casual light lunch, both brilliant people in their own rights but both have agreed there's definite chemistry, I'm not looking to mes either one around, they both deserve better than that.
I wake up some days and read my mails and text's only to find myself talking myself in circles. I know someone will say grow a pair and make a choice, take the gamble and accept the outcome whatever it is, I'm hoping for a better response than that.
I'm currently single, have been since around Aug last year, I've got two distinct paths before me and find myself stuck between a rock and hard place, I do expect to get the usual smattering of off the cuff answers but I reckon there's going to be some sound advice as well.
It all boils down to the fact that I like two women, both got all the qualities you could hope for in a partner, both got great senses of humour, intelligent, attractive etc..
I really do find it had to separate, my feelings for them, we're all capable of getting close to more than one person, I know either is going to be a gamble as all relationships are, there are no certainties with anything in this life.
The only real factor I could call it on is location, one lives about 10 miles away which for me is a nice distance, you can do the whole casual let's have a day out without planning it, the other lives 100 miles away and if it developed into a serious relationship I would have to relocate, we'd probably get to see each other once every two weeks or so what with work etc. but I don't want to make a decision based on where someone lives, it's too cold and calculating for me.
I've been pretty close to them both for about two months now, we speak and chat online pretty often, have met them both for a coffee and a casual light lunch, both brilliant people in their own rights but both have agreed there's definite chemistry, I'm not looking to mes either one around, they both deserve better than that.
I wake up some days and read my mails and text's only to find myself talking myself in circles. I know someone will say grow a pair and make a choice, take the gamble and accept the outcome whatever it is, I'm hoping for a better response than that.
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