Controversial thread.. - question for gays.

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 15:03

firstly, im not homophobic, im not anti-gay or anything. Im just curious about something.

To the gay folk, why are you gay? Obviously that sounds ridiculous, as they are feelings and you cant control em, but there is no way your born gay so what was it that made you gay? how can you not love the titties?

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 18:02

haha i love ocuk

your all totally correct, im gay, and i was born gay..

listen, being gay is just having an abnormal (no offence) fettish for loving from the same sex.. are people who love animal sex born with the gene? what about the pooing on the chest ? ...

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 19:59

Burnsy2023 said:
I still don't see you reasoning to why being gay is 'abnormal'

Well its hardly "normal" is it..

I define normal as being the views or actions of the majority..

sponge999 said:
I don't think you can compare them to be honest

Course you can, sex and the like are what a relationship is based around..

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 20:08

Nitefly said:
I think you are meaning to say it's not common.

Saying it's not normal implies there is something wrong with it.

not at all. if someone likes peanut butter and jam sandwiches, that to me is definitely not normal, nothing wrong with it though. maybe abnormal was the wrong word.. but to me it is definitely not normal.

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 20:11

Castiel said:
So being an atheist is abnormal?

well then now your getting in deeper waters.. Having atheist views vs religious views is a totally different matter. Besides every single religion has different sects and that isnt even counting the "religious" who are too scared to say they are atheist.

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 20:28

Castiel said:
Not by your definition of "abnormal" though. Self-confessed Atheists are outnumbered by Anglicans for example, does that make Anglicans normal and Atheists abnormal?

by your definition it does.

i just dont think the religion argument works because its something which is based around beliefs and views, not feelings.

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 20:38

Castiel said:
Really?

What do homosexuals feel that is different exactly?

Do they not feel Love, Hate, Anger, and so on in the same way as everyone else?

Are you suggesting that their emotional and physical responses are different because of some abnormality in their chemical/genetic makeup?

Are you suggesting that they do not 'feel' in the same way as heterosexuals, that they are emotionally disabled in some way?

firstly, their sexual preference, obviously.

Of course they feel all those.

Well of course their emotions and feelings are different therefore to me "abnormal".

And im saying they feel the same in everything other then who they wanna bang.

My whole argument is why are people gay? Its gonna be mainly if not 100% nuture, there is no nature about it. If there was then animals would be gay (proper gay, not just humping). Same way that humans are the only animals who commit suicide. Its down to the things which have happened in their life.

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 20:46

^TANK^ said:
Please engage brain, homosexuals are born that way just like you were born a heterosexual!

and you know this for certain?

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 20:47

Castiel said:
So they don't "feel" like normal people then, that is what you are saying?

Yet you then say the feel the same.....

You sound like a very confused man tbh.

actually I meant "their emotions and feelings towards their sexuality are different therfore abnormal to me"

hardly confused.. are you gay may i ask?

salami1212 · 25 Mar 2011 at 20:49

^TANK^ said:
Please disprove it?

please prove it