Could you live without intercourse?

rypt · 28 Mar 2011 at 20:05

Fair enough.

When I said

rypt said:
Plenty of women say that, and yet in my personal experience most never follow that (even those from cultures who are fairly reserved - ie East Asian).

I wasn't actually talking about pure one night stands, but was talking about girls sleeping with someone before a proper relationship is established but then still seeing the person for a few weeks or months afterwards.

Again, I can only speak from personal experience though

knip · 28 Mar 2011 at 20:07

Hey I wasn't getting stroppy or anything, my attitude when it comes to sex is pretty laid back (pardon the pun)

Im also one who can separate the emotion from sex and not fall for someone just because I have been to bed with them, I still have to "want" them, just not necessarily for anything long term.

Maybe its why i've spent so much of my life single, cos im odd

SlyReaper · 28 Mar 2011 at 20:09

VoG said:
if it was due to an overwhelming medical reason ( home care for a seriously disabled OH ) then yes, stay faithful as well?, sorry no, ide have to slink off & play hide the sausage from time to time, otherwise ide be a raging ball of frustration on a hair trigger.

If your worry is a build up of sexual frustration, what's wrong with Mrs Palm and a box of Kleenex?

Cheekykid · 28 Mar 2011 at 20:51

knip said:
Nope, everyone I have slept with I have known for at least a couple of weeks beforehand. Honest. I can even remember all their names.

Why would you open your legs for them though?

Richdog · 28 Mar 2011 at 20:53

^TANK^ said:
If you bin someone simply over a low sex drive, then yes that seems a lot like you're using woman purely for sex. Your current girlfriend for example, what would you do if she wasn't up for sex every day? Or her sex drive started to slowly diminish?

How old are you? You seem to have a seriously idealistic, thus unrealistic, view of life and relationships.

No-ones saying they will "bin someone" (I think I last used that term when I was 15), but that sex is an essential part of a relationship as long as one partner has a sex drive. It is a genetic drive, in our DNA, and the longer you ignore it then the worse it will get. Fact.

knip said:
Hey I wasn't getting stroppy or anything, my attitude when it comes to sex is pretty laid back (pardon the pun)

Im also one who can separate the emotion from sex and not fall for someone just because I have been to bed with them, I still have to "want" them, just not necessarily for anything long term.

Maybe its why i've spent so much of my life single, cos im odd

I've often been the same, and I think it's the best way to be. There's are people you have sex with solely for the pleasure of it, and those that you have sex with for deeper meaning. It's important to be able to seperate the two.

knip · 28 Mar 2011 at 20:56

Cheekykid said:
Why would you open your legs for them though?

Whats that supposed to mean?

Buffman · 28 Mar 2011 at 20:57

Cheekykid said:
Why would you open your legs for them though?

Strong username to post correlation.

kalvindeane · 28 Mar 2011 at 21:07

tom91x91 said:
ive lived without it since i was born so yes i could

This.

wannabedamned · 28 Mar 2011 at 21:38

Cheekykid said:
Why would you open your legs for them though?

I don't get what relevance your question has?

Cheekykid · 28 Mar 2011 at 23:55

wannabedamned said:
I don't get what relevance your question has?

am enquiring about the criteria she has

^TANK^ · 29 Mar 2011 at 06:29

dmpoole said:
Well he did me.

Richdog said:
How old are you? You seem to have a seriously idealistic, thus unrealistic, view of life and relationships.

Twenty eight but whats my age got to do with anything? Idealistic? I'm entitled to have my own personal beliefs/morals just like anyone else, I honestly couldn't give a **** what you or others think. Also please stop saying Fact, as you're only giving an opinion.