Did she ditch me for good?

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I was going to my bank to deposit some cash. Well, I did so and on the way back home I decided to have a meal at Garfunkels. I knew that this restaurant is usually expensive and doesn't get you your moneys worth. That said, i couldn't be bother to go elsewhere as I was hungry.

I stepped in the restaurant with a rather rejuvenated and elevated spirit which does help "everything". There was this chick from Poland(i could tell) waiting for me to greet me and take me to the table. She was rather good looking but with a "cold" face....anyway...she welcomed me and she asked me where I would like to sit. I said over there and she swiftly escorted me to the table. On the way to the table she showed me the person who will be serving me. I thought "wow, this is not the service I expected". I greeted my assigned servant with a smile. She is a petite polish girl not over 5'.3" tall with a rather decent structure, aged close to 30. I didn't like much her face but I could haggle.

She came to my table promtly to take my order and she was very friendly and smiling all the time. I ordered, she legged it and she returned after a while with the food.
Up to this point I just thought this is good service and nothing more however as time was passing I noticed that she kept being "attending" to me in a rather interesting manner. I begun wondering whether this is a sign that she likes me but I was unsure and given that I didn't REALLY like her face which is an important part for me I didn't pay much attention to her.

My stay there was coming to an end and I asked for the bill. I was pleased with the service I received and I wanted to leave a generous tip. The touch screen where they produce the invoices was right next to me so I asked straight for the bill while she was close to device as I wanted to leg it for home. I asked "how much is it?" she said "let's see" while looking at the screen. She said £15 and something and I replied "eeerrrr....I meant your tip"
She smiled and looked surprised from the liquidity of my kindness/generosity:D

She brought the bill, I left a £20 pound note and was about to make a move after finishing my coke. That's when she begun talking to me. She asked me where I come from etc. We had a chat for a good while and she said numerous times how kind I am, how much better her day would have been if she could have 2 guys like me every day etc.

Basically i was rather convinced that she likes me to some degree. She must have....otherwise she wouldn't of initiated anything. The chat ended with us exchanging some compliments and I left. After a day or two I decided that I would like to go out with her and see how things go. I was convinced with little doubt that she would accept my request.

So I went back a week later to ask her out. First I had a meal and then at the end I was hoping that she will see me and come and talk to me so that I can ask her out. Well....she came and I did. She looked kinda taken back a bit (not the responce I expected) but shen then told me to wait and she came after a while with her number(oh yeah I thought,job done:D). I told her ill call her tomorrow and left.
I left with a warm feeling of satisfaction knowing that right now i must be the best thing happened to her since sliced bread;)

I did call her as I promised and I was expecting to set up a meeting. We chatted for a while and she said to me that shes too busy this period because of the summer break as she had to replace others and therefore she couln't meet me (for a cofee) till 2weeks have passed:confused:
She said she will call me. I knew she wouldn't. She didn't:(

Wtf??? You say to someone how nice he is etc and when he asks you out you reply with "see ya in 2 weeks" ??? I mean...assuming that shes too busy to go out for a short coffe:rolleyes: she could always have sent me a txt or something. I knew that she wouldn't suddenly appear after 2 weeks and say "hey lets go out". I still have her number

What do I do:

1) Forget her. The b*tch sucked.

2) Call her and ask how shes doing while forgetting that she ignored you.

3) Call and verbally abuse her

4) Txt her with the link of this thread and let's take it from there:D

5) Go back with a pair of glasses similar to this http://megaspy.net/product_info.php/cPath/24/products_id/215 and demand to know what happened.
Bring the video back here for further scrutiny and entertainment
 
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She gave you one chance (the number), looks like you somehow blew it. Maybe you were too cheeky ("best thing happened to her since sliced bread", ouch man, that's one step from "I'm too sexy for my shirt"...)

Send her text with "Hi, this is cheekykid, can I call you to chat?"

Wait a moment. She has no idea of me being a cheekykid, not yet that is:D

Maybe she gave me her number because she was too shy to say no and she just saw me as someone to have a chat there and nothing else but still....there is something missing here.
 
7) Call immigration. Bet the bitch is here illegaly.

Legend:D

Wow.
Ok so, you say you don't like 'her face', yet you're now pursuing her with some serious stalker-like effort? Men.
It seems to me like she was being a nice person and doing good at her job by conversing with you and being pleasant after the meal (i'd take a guess and say that she was overly nice and chatty because you gave her a generous tip).

I'm thinking that unless she made any apparant passes at you, like suggesting to do anything with you without you initiating it, she would surely be interested. But it just sounds as though she's picked up an admirer and she's just going along with it for the sake of the attention.

My advice would be to just text her something casual, asking her out for a drink.
However, seeing as though you've basically already done this and she said she was going to be busy for 2 weeks.. it doesn't seem like she's into the idea, and that she is just generally enjoying the attention, but has no intention of taking it any further.

I think to continue pursuing her would be foolish.

When she said to me that she needs 2 weeks I could tell that I won't talk to her again and I didn't. I should reiterate that she said that she would call me so basically the door is open but she doesn't wanna come in. In addition I never made apparent that I "want her" for girlfriend.

She was kind and very attending prior to my giving her a tip. Looking at me often and smiling etc. I had no intention to chat to her or do "anything" intimate. She initiated a kinda longish conversation about her and I contributed my sentiments here and there. She was obviously into me as a friend at least. She even showed to me a number another guy left for her and she said that she doesn't like that and that she would have prefered if he had the balls to ask her directly.

If she liked me why not go out with someone you like and maybe become friends? Going out doesn't always have to mean that you need to get laid. A little too far, and far, far too weird - Gilly.
TBH her image has helped me to structure my frequent fantasies in a more constructive way so credit there.

As I said she did have a rather tight bum and maybe even more but I can't attest to that she i didn't have a chance to see her naked. How could I have come to that anyway? we were in a restaurant not in the bathroom.

The plan now is:

Am going back to the same restaurant with a friend of mine in a months time. Why? For entertainments shake:D. I just wanna see what "will happen" when she sees me. After all she knows that she ditched me like a hot potato which is fine i guess. It happens to the best of us.

I shall want to entertain you by providing video proof of the upcoming interaction however I can't afford to buy the afformentioned glasses. If you donate I promise to record the funny event and see if I can bring up something entertaining.


P.S. Am being serious:cool:
 
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Post #93 reads really disturbing.. almost obsessive?

If you are a man come outside:mad:


Compensated how? You were lucky to not be suspended. This is a family forum. Consider it your compensation that you still have the ability to post.

Suspended for what? What is anti-family from what I said? Does anything i've said promote hatred/racism/hurting others/damaging to kids?

A bit of cheeky humour is anti-family?...:rolleyes:
sure it can be weird for your taste but....
so much for freedom of expression. If you are a bit different all that you receive is abuse and for that I will not apologize:mad:


Thread served it's purpose.


It shall close with immediate effect as per OPs request


even though over 3,000 views can't be wrong ;)


P.S. Me vs all: 2-1


Amen:)
 
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I want to know what was

Has he started following her home at night or something?


It's what happens to almost everyone at some point during their young life because nature dictates so but none has the @@ to say it. We have many taboos....:rolleyes:


Worse, whilst that guy was invading her privacy he wasn't intending to do anything negative towards her, this guy seems to walk to stalk some girl who showed him a bit of kindess.

Couldn't be further from the truth. This member shall be suspended for indirectly calling me a dangerous person:mad:
 
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Anyway....time to update this thread

I haven't been back to chase this matture babe, admittedly i would have no reason to. Nowadays am chasing babes of eastern european descent. Please refer to the other thread for the latest events
 
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