Dilema... Female problems :(

[agnes]

Right, me and my current gf have been together for about 6 months, and at no point have I really had a 'spark' with her. Yet I love spending time with her, the bedroom play is great and come on, she lets me play the 360, orders pizza and joins in with commentary! "Quick! There are a pack of grunts coming up on your right!" hehe.

Problem is, I'm worried as I have never been a relationship kind of guy, more of a 1 nighter. So how should this feel? I know for a fact she is crazy about me which is worrying as I care enough that I don't want to hurt her in anyway possible.

She had a little bit of a funny one when we were in a club on Friday, a couple of lasses came up to her and noticed we were fart arsing about so assumed we were mates (we were talking to each other loudly in accents from True Blood acting like children lol, still makes me laugh thinking about it) and asked about me... Obviously she got a little peeved off as it wasn't the first time it has happened...

So she gets jealous when females ask about me or talk to me in bars??? Normal?

Anyway, what should I do?

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[agnes]

I'm having trouble understanding your complaint.

She's the perfect girl aside from a bit of jealousy (which everyone grows out of)? Is there something specific that's bothering you, or are you just unsure if this is how "love" should feel?

Yea, it's not a complaint, just a confusion. What should I feel? Anything at all? It's driving me nuts, as it stands, it feels like a best mate with benefits...

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[agnes]

So you've found an awesome girl to be with but you are worried because you haven't felt a "spark"?!

I hate you and I hate this post...

Lol, I in no way intend that to be my intention, just need some guidance from the love guru's who have been in many relationships as this is my first proper one...

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[agnes]

Its not going to last anyway and judging from your icq,msn etc etc etc..you like a bit of attention and she will only get more jealous.

Ummm, ok? So having online communication tools is a no no? Some how I think I will skip that advice.

Critical information missing from thread.

1. OP's age.
2. Pics

21 and no pics at work

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[agnes]

Could you envisage living a happy life without her? Could you live with her for the rest of your life? Does the prospect of seeing her send shivers up your spine and does thinking about her make you smile to yourself?
Above and many more are the sort of probing questions that hold the answers you seek!

And yeah, the jealousy thing is more than normal if you're really into someone.

Well, we talk a lot, email during the day and text/phone at night, although she comes round pretty much every other day, she is coming round on Friday after work to watch a couple of films before heading out to her brothers gig in Reading.

I really do smile when I talk about her, we have had some funny moments together

Thank you all for your input, I will have a serious chat to my best mate tonight to get an insight of what she thinks. I won't say anything to my gf at the moment, I will wait as I am happy with her. Guess I just have no idea how to love really

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[agnes]

Ok, I am giong to be all sopy now and share one of the funniest moments we had.

Just before my dog had her pups, we were playing fetch with my phone with her (its a old phone and was being replaced at the time) and I lobbed it out the back garden, ran back into my bedroom (connected to the back door), we both waited in anticipation for fluff's return with my phone... 1 min later, she came in with a fluffy toy! My gf instantly said out loud "TADA!!" LOL... As if fluff had intended to pull a magic trick, we still giggle at it today lol.

Sod it, I am crazy about her, I am stupid, thanks everyone! Brief moment of doubt there...

WOOP

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[agnes]

Met her parents yet though?

Yes, they are awsome

Although I think they think I am a bad influence lol... Yet it's the other way round! Mother love, blinding stuff lol

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