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I got dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years last weekend by txt!! I went round to find out why and it seems she went out with an ex-boyfriend a month or so ago, and now he wants back in her life. As far as I am aware everything was fine between us before this, although I guess it can't have been.

I am completely devastated, and have not been able to think about anything else all week. We met at work and as I am planning to leave anyway, I could cause her serious problems there. I also feel like going round and confronting this bloke when he comes down to stay at hers in a week or so.

I'm in my forties now so finding someone else won't be as easy as it once was!

I still love her despite what she has done, and she has said that she would like to remain friends. Part of me wants to hurt her as much as possible and give this new guy a good kicking, but then I think I should just leave it and move on.

I am not sure that I could deal with just being friends, though the thought of just walking away and never seeing her again is tearing me apart.

Any advice?
 
Drink should see you through for a while! :p

You've hit 40's without encoutering this before?

I would hope your life skills by that point would help you... :confused:
 
been with her for 3 years, and she just leaves for someone? Thats a bit harsh tbh, 3 years, you must no each other really well and everything.

I would try to get her back, send her some flowers or whatever, but if nothing works just move on.
 
Snakes with ****, I tell ya. :mad:

Obviously she doesn't know what she wants going BACK to an ex, what a loser..

Move on and be happy you didn't marry the bitch. :(


Andy
 
Biohazard said:
Drink should see you through for a while! :p

You've hit 40's without encoutering this before?

I would hope your life skills by that point would help you... :confused:
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Never had quite this situation before. Even in your forties this sort of thing destroys all rational thought! :(
 
What a **** she is. Refrain from unleashing the fury on your ex and her new boyfriend. You're better than her. It may be hard to do so right now, but try to look to the future.
 
Heh I had the same problem. Last 4 weeks has been hell as she cheated on me with her ex in June and then dumped me via text even though I had no idea there were any issues! There werent any but her ex seems to control her. I stopped talking to her a week ago and suddenly she starts calling me and saying she loves me, etc, etc and wants to meet up.

I let her drive 5 hours to meet up today saying we could talk things through and I'd give her another chance. Had sex then just told her I've moved on so she may as well drive home again now as I dont actually want her back and her ex is welcome to her then kicked her out of the house...

Yep, feel very bad now that I did it but at the time revenge was sweet!! And fun too ;) She's put me through 4 weeks of sleepless nights and many bottles of whiskey so I shouldnt feel any remorse but heck if I'm honest I do still love her but I'll never let her know that because as soon as she gains control she'll use it to her advantage again. Needless to say she has sent torrents of abuse via text but ah well its sat night so time to go out!
 
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Heh I had the same problem. Last 4 weeks has been hell as she cheated on me with her ex in June and then dumped me via text even though I had no idea there were any issues! There werent any but her ex seems to control her. I stopped talking to her a week ago and suddenly she starts calling me and saying she loves me, etc, etc and wants to meet up.

I let her drive 5 hours to meet up today saying we could talk things through and I'd give her another chance. Had sex then just told her I've moved on so she may as well drive home again now as I dont actually want her back and her ex is welcome to her then kicked her out of the house...

Yep, feel very bad now that I did it but at the time revenge was sweet!! And fun too ;) She's put me through 4 weeks of sleepless nights and many bottles of whiskey so I shouldnt feel any remorse but heck if I'm honest I do still love her but I'll never let her know that because as soon as she gains control she'll use it to her advantage again. Needless to say she has sent torrents of abuse via text but ah well its sat night so time to go out!
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Nice one :D
 
Nice move mate ;)

Very similar to what I did to one of my x gfriends many years ago. Made me feel a whole lot better and made her mad as hell. And luckily I got rid of her, and married a woman 100 times better.

Funny thing was - I have met her only 3 times in the last 12 years or so, and each time I meet her, she tells me how much of a bitch she was - and how much she regrets losing me and doign what she did to me.
 
Totality said:
I let her drive 5 hours to meet up today saying we could talk things through and I'd give her another chance. Had sex then just told her I've moved on so she may as well drive home again now as I dont actually want her back and her ex is welcome to her then kicked her out of the house...
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Beautiful :p
 
Totality said:
I let her drive 5 hours to meet up today saying we could talk things through and I'd give her another chance. Had sex then just told her I've moved on so she may as well drive home again now as I dont actually want her back and her ex is welcome to her then kicked her out of the house...
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Alpha for sure.
 
Totality said:
I let her drive 5 hours to meet up today saying we could talk things through and I'd give her another chance. Had sex then just told her I've moved on so she may as well drive home again now as I dont actually want her back and her ex is welcome to her then kicked her out of the house...
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You did it wrong! You suggest outdoor sex to see if it'll liven things up a bit and then when done you grab her clothes and leg it.
 
Totality said:
I let her drive 5 hours to meet up today saying we could talk things through and I'd give her another chance. Had sex then just told her I've moved on so she may as well drive home again now as I dont actually want her back and her ex is welcome to her then kicked her out of the house...
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Haha, sweet revenge. :p
 
Don't you just hate it when you are left being "that guy" once someone new comes? But thinking about all the things that the new guy (or ex, or whatever) is doing to her is only going to drive you nuts! It is not worth it! I am not on the same situation, it has been more than year since the missus and I split, and if I wasn't enlisting in two days, frankly, I don't know what I would be doing.

Do something to take your mind off of things, why not go for a skydive? One way to leave all your problems in the ground :D
 
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