Hi guys.
I have received my first unpaid item strike, and I'm really annoyed.
The story...
A month and a half ago, my Dad asked me to sort a gift out for somebody. I said sure - but time was tight. The item needed to arrive pronto.
I found the item I needed - £80 - at an Ebay powerseller on a Buy it Now. It was an Ebay Shop, the guy had hundreds and offered next day delivery.
I clicked buy it now, and proceeded directly to payment. Went to pay via Paypal but it wouldn't let me. It said I had reached my sending limit, and I had to verify with Paypal. This would take up to 5 working days.
I did not have 5 working days. The only other payment method the seller accepted was personal cheque - again, this would delay the shipping and I needed the item fast.
I found the item elsewhere, for £10 more, at a conventional online store.
So, I emailed the seller. I explained the situation, apologised profusely for the hassle, and offered to pay his listing fee.
He did not reply.
A month later, I get a message from Ebay saying the seller has filed a non paying bidder report. I'm obviously a tad miffed at this - I think I was quite reasonable. I am offered the chance to discuss the issue via the 'Dispute Console'. Again, I am totally polite. I basically re-tell the story, and once again apologise and offer to pay the guys listing fee.
He did not reply. Totally ignored it.
Today, 7 days later, I log in to find I have received an unpaid item strike.
Am I right to be a little narked, or is it my problem for being a 'non paying bidder'?
It was not an auction - so it's not as if some guy had been waiting patiently to sell his item for a week and I went and screwed it up. It was simply an Ebay store - nothing more. I liken my situation to taking an item to the till only to find your credit card is rejected. I was very polite, very reasonable, and the seller didn't ONCE bother to contact me himself, or reply to me.
What can I do? Put it behind me and move on, or is there any way to challenge this? Ebay state I can only challenge it if I have proof of payment
It just feels so... unfair.
I have received my first unpaid item strike, and I'm really annoyed.
The story...
A month and a half ago, my Dad asked me to sort a gift out for somebody. I said sure - but time was tight. The item needed to arrive pronto.
I found the item I needed - £80 - at an Ebay powerseller on a Buy it Now. It was an Ebay Shop, the guy had hundreds and offered next day delivery.
I clicked buy it now, and proceeded directly to payment. Went to pay via Paypal but it wouldn't let me. It said I had reached my sending limit, and I had to verify with Paypal. This would take up to 5 working days.
I did not have 5 working days. The only other payment method the seller accepted was personal cheque - again, this would delay the shipping and I needed the item fast.
I found the item elsewhere, for £10 more, at a conventional online store.
So, I emailed the seller. I explained the situation, apologised profusely for the hassle, and offered to pay his listing fee.
He did not reply.
A month later, I get a message from Ebay saying the seller has filed a non paying bidder report. I'm obviously a tad miffed at this - I think I was quite reasonable. I am offered the chance to discuss the issue via the 'Dispute Console'. Again, I am totally polite. I basically re-tell the story, and once again apologise and offer to pay the guys listing fee.
He did not reply. Totally ignored it.
Today, 7 days later, I log in to find I have received an unpaid item strike.
Am I right to be a little narked, or is it my problem for being a 'non paying bidder'?
It was not an auction - so it's not as if some guy had been waiting patiently to sell his item for a week and I went and screwed it up. It was simply an Ebay store - nothing more. I liken my situation to taking an item to the till only to find your credit card is rejected. I was very polite, very reasonable, and the seller didn't ONCE bother to contact me himself, or reply to me.
What can I do? Put it behind me and move on, or is there any way to challenge this? Ebay state I can only challenge it if I have proof of payment

It just feels so... unfair.