You shouldn't need soldering either, except maybe to make up a cable harness. The ECU will have a port somewhere for the garage to do diagnostics - mine is under the steering wheel for instance. You may also need to unlock the existing ECU - my car needs this, but I don't know how common it is.
Then you need to understand what is on the map, and what changing all the stuff meas. I've watched Paul Blamire do my car and it looks relatively simple - but I bet it isn't. Especially as it usually takes him several tweaks to get it right.
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