Ever dated someone married?!
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I always look at those kind of things with the "what goes around comes around" glasses. Don't put yourself in a situation where karma's going to bite your ass later on...
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Never cheat and never help cheat.
No. I wouldn't, either.
The closest I got was an absolute fitty telling me she wanted me. I was well in there, until her marine husband came back from the toilet. It was a tiny pub with about 8 people in it, including 3 of us. She came to speak to me while he was sat down and said he goes away next week, come see me then.
We left fairly soon after.
The closest I got was an absolute fitty telling me she wanted me. I was well in there, until her marine husband came back from the toilet. It was a tiny pub with about 8 people in it, including 3 of us. She came to speak to me while he was sat down and said he goes away next week, come see me then.
We left fairly soon after.
I use to think and still do mostly that if they are dating you when being married then what are the chance's of you getting happily married and they don't cheat on you?
But over time I learnt there are exceptions a person can be in a real bad marriage and you know they are or well get divorced. In which case dating them while married is ok. But most of the time its a bad idea dating someone who's married.
It really depends on the circumstance's the problem with dating someone married is you don't know if its a good or bad idea till its to late.
“If there willing to cheat on there husband. they'll have no qualms with cheating on you.”
Although true most of the time its not always true.
But over time I learnt there are exceptions a person can be in a real bad marriage and you know they are or well get divorced. In which case dating them while married is ok. But most of the time its a bad idea dating someone who's married.
It really depends on the circumstance's the problem with dating someone married is you don't know if its a good or bad idea till its to late.
“If there willing to cheat on there husband. they'll have no qualms with cheating on you.”
Although true most of the time its not always true.
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Sounds like it right now
And I haven't done anything to make her cheat (unless you class very flirty/emotional emails)
Such a hard choice - keep chasing or give up whilst still on high ground
yeah if the relationship is already totally fubared or it's a violent relationship. But most of the time it's not and they just string both partners along.
give up imo, the isle of man is a small place and ull be branded a dog with her, find someoen who is single and dont wreck someones marrage, if she leaves him then fair enough go for it
i know load sof people who cheat/ heave cheated on there wife/long term partner over here its a disgrace
i know load sof people who cheat/ heave cheated on there wife/long term partner over here its a disgrace
“Such a hard choice - keep chasing or give up whilst still on high ground “
Find out more about her marriage discretely if you can. If you know why she is willing to cheat then your in a better position to judge to keep chasing or give up. Some women are ***** and others just like the flirt but not go anywhere. If its either of those two give up.
Is it a totally fubared marriage because of something she did? Was it the husband? Or both. Next to impossible to find out but its the diffrance between it being ok or wrong to date her.
Find out more about her marriage discretely if you can. If you know why she is willing to cheat then your in a better position to judge to keep chasing or give up. Some women are ***** and others just like the flirt but not go anywhere. If its either of those two give up.
Is it a totally fubared marriage because of something she did? Was it the husband? Or both. Next to impossible to find out but its the diffrance between it being ok or wrong to date her.
Sounds like it right now
And I haven't done anything to make her cheat (unless you class very flirty/emotional emails)
Such a hard choice - keep chasing or give up whilst still on high ground
If you've any morales, it's not a hard choice at all.
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