Can someone please either point me towards or provide a brief guide to fans, fan connections, molex, 3-pin, 4-pin etc etc!! 

Hopefully, something general that can be referred to by others, but if it needs to be specific, I have a Q6600, Asus P5Q-E, PNY 8800 GT, 2x2GB OCZ, Corsair 520w-mod in an Antec 300.
I'm intending to do some mild/medium OC to perhaps 3.0/3.2GHz. I don't really want to have loads of fans blasting away! I'd prefer to tone down the OC than make it too noisy, but I'm not looking for silent either. Just reasonably quiet!!
My case obviously already has 2 extract fans fitted and I've been advised to use both of these. I've also been advised to get at least two 120mm intake fans to run at slow speed on the front and maybe one on the side too.
So:
Sorry for so many questions, but it is amazing how complicated something that I'm sure is relatively simple can seem!


Hopefully, something general that can be referred to by others, but if it needs to be specific, I have a Q6600, Asus P5Q-E, PNY 8800 GT, 2x2GB OCZ, Corsair 520w-mod in an Antec 300.
I'm intending to do some mild/medium OC to perhaps 3.0/3.2GHz. I don't really want to have loads of fans blasting away! I'd prefer to tone down the OC than make it too noisy, but I'm not looking for silent either. Just reasonably quiet!!

My case obviously already has 2 extract fans fitted and I've been advised to use both of these. I've also been advised to get at least two 120mm intake fans to run at slow speed on the front and maybe one on the side too.
So:
- Is there anything special I should know about how to set up these various fans?
- Or, do I just connect them direct to the MB or somewhere else?
- Or, should I put them through some sort of controller?
- Should I link all/some of them to temperatures of certain components, the inside of the case or something else so that they turn on/off speed up / slow down depending on conditions? Simple = better as far as I'm concerned, to an extent, but if there is a good argument for doing something a bit more complicated, then fine. But remember, this isn't going to be a highly OC set-up.
- If 4=Yes, what and how?
- What are reasonable, preferably cheap fans to use for the intakes? I'm considering Yate Loon D12SL-12. Would these be a reasonable choice?
- What is the difference between these and the D12SM and D12SH? I presume L=low, M=medium and H=high speed. I presume Ls should be fine for what I want and are quieter than Ms or Hs?
- What are all the different pin combinations for? Again, which would be best in my case?
Sorry for so many questions, but it is amazing how complicated something that I'm sure is relatively simple can seem!