Feeling so low right now, need advice
- Thread starter Vertiginous
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She probably thinks this is how relationships are supposed to work, like you said you are both learning. Remember if you follow her blindly you won't be attractive, instead get on with looking after yourself, have direction and have fun, that's attractive.
Associate
At 17, you're just starting out. Unless she's a supermodel and/or millionaires, let her go - there's a place in your life for crazy women, but a relationship isn't one of them. There's plenty of normal women out there, spend this time at college, with your mates, seeing which women come along, and look properly in your mid-twenties. You've the rest of your life to be sensible and settle down, enjoy your youth while you've got it, and certainly don't give it up for some deranged "girlfriend" whose clearly a sandwich short of a picnic.....
Soldato
Scotland or Cornwall? Which? Shows she's definitely given this a lot of thought! Then calls you a "see you next Tuesday" for not immediately acquiescing. Classy.
This surely has the hallmark of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
This surely has the hallmark of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
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Caporegime
She sounds like a keeper. I'd suggest abandoning your education to move to Scotland (or Cornwall) and living your life the way she wants you to. This is how love and adult relationships work and this, together with the profanity and vague and empty threats, are ideal foundations to build upon what sounds like an already incredible relationship.
Good luck!
Good luck!
Soldato
[FnG]magnolia;24536022 said:
You forgot lifeless sex in awkward silence, once a month. And being led around Ikea, looking at cushions, wishing you were dead
Soldato
move on dude. its hard I know as your young and the experience and things we talk off are not what you want to hear, it is however wise and correct.
Man of Honour
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal, dude.
Dump her first before she dumps you, it is always better to dump than be dumped.That sounds far too familiar
Soldato
You're 17. Don't make big daft decisions that uproot you. Do what you want to do, she's only a girl and you've both got the most difficult part of your lives ahead, the Uni years.
Commissario
Sounds like she's more bonkers than Mrs. Bonkers who lives in Bonkers Lane, Bonkerstown, Bonkersshire and who won the 2013 "Miss Bonkers Universe" competition.
Tell her to get stuffed and to mind the door doesn't hit her cute bonkers backside on the way out.
Tell her to get stuffed and to mind the door doesn't hit her cute bonkers backside on the way out.
You're 17, both of you. Move on however hard it seems. She sounds as if she's got a lot of growing up to do. Let her do it, without dragging you along with her, away from what's important to you (college is very important..has she thought about stuff like jobs, money, places to live?)
You'll meet other girls. There are a lot of us out there, many of us pretty reasonable. Treat it as a learning experience.
You'll meet other girls. There are a lot of us out there, many of us pretty reasonable. Treat it as a learning experience.
Caporegime
Hi...fancy running away to Scotland or maybe Cornwall?
Caporegime
17...
Southend
See you next Tuesday.
Tell her to enjoy her trip/life without you.
Southend
See you next Tuesday.
Tell her to enjoy her trip/life without you.
Caporegime
Sure!
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If she moves to Cornwall go to Scotland.
If she moves to Scotland.......
If she moves to Scotland.......