Forced Marriage Unit

Woden · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:08

cheets64 said:
But can they say no,? I mean don't the family take it to heart, next minute you have an "honour killing" on your hands.

Racist much? Yes they can say no, and most my friends said no (or got turned down) a few times before they finally settled down.
Most Muslims do NOT go for the honour killing stuff.

G-MAN2004 · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:09

cheets64 said:
Grass is not always greener.

California or Wigan?

World's easiest question right there.

Craterloads · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:09

cheets64 said:
But can they say no,? I mean don't the family take it to heart, next minute you have an "honour killing" on your hands.

Lolcheets, do you enjoy making a fool out of yourself.. no seriously?

cheets64 · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:21

And here come the "racist" crowd, cant say anything anymore, don't question other cultures or you are a racist combat 18 member

Woden · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:24

cheets64 said:
And here come the "racist" crowd, cant say anything anymore, don't question other cultures or you are a racist combat 18 member

Questioning other isn't racist. Assuming a whole section of society kills there own for not getting married, however, is.

Robbo · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:25

cheets64 said:
And here come the "racist" crowd, cant say anything anymore, don't question other cultures or you are a racist combat 18 member

Question other cultures, don't imply they are all murderers, that just makes you look stupid.

Castiel · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:26

cheets64 said:
And here come the "racist" crowd, cant say anything anymore, don't question other cultures or you are a racist combat 18 member

I did not say you were racist, only that you may not understand the issues well enough to be fully objective as illustrated by your responses with regard to the difference between forced and arranged marriage.

cheets64 · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:28

The Halk said:
It seems to me that the problem isn't so much a British one, it's certainly not a religious one, it's a cultural problem where third world people are transplanted to the UK but don't come up to our cultural standards of behaviour. Witchcraft murders, forced marriage, forced exclusion from society etc.

As to how to solve it.. I don't know. Multiculturalism is the problem though.... we've made the mistake of allowing people to exist within our country, but without integrating into society. From that it would suggest that a forced marriage unit will cause conflict because it will be opposed to communities and working against them.

The solution would be to do what we can to avoid further expansion of multiculturalism - without going for extreme policies or anything silly. And also work out how we involve and include people who are excluded from society. Very very difficult things to solve.

Could not of put it any better, the rot has set in, we cant do anything, its become to wide spread. We try and help vulnerable people but get shunned by the "community" because its their way of life and heritage.

Woden · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:28

Castiel said:
I did not say you were racist, only that you may not understand the issues well enough to be fully objective as illustrated by your responses with regard to the difference between forced and arranged marriage.

I called him racist after what he said in post #15

Craterloads · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:29

cheets64 said:
http://www.fco.gov.uk/en/travel-and-living-abroad/when-things-go-wrong/forced-marriage/

Shocking that we need this in Great Britain

This should be fun.

Shocking we needs a murder division in the UK
Shocking we need a rape division in the UK
Shocking we need a pedo division is the UK
Shocking we need a drugs division in the UK

Seems like your always in the state of shock cheets, maybe you should get it looked at.

When your done being shocked, you can be shocked again at the divisions of the police force i mentioned above, i suspect you will be shocked for a long time after seeing them. Cant believe there are murders here in the UK, yes here our beautiful pasteurised greenlands are home to murderers aaaahh run hide behind the settee!

Deadbeat · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:29

Thread by cheets concerning a racially-orientated issue. Didn't read, assumed to be simple-minded drivel about how multicultural society is a failed experiment - as if the opinions of a bunch of skinhead moron knuckle-draggers waving EDL flags is going to get all the darkies to up and leave. Cue defensive "oh look, can't say anything without being branded a racist" when actually he gets branded a racist for saying racist things. Thread devolves into recursive points being thrown back and forth. Magnolia wins at bigot bingo because he's got OldCoals on his card, lucky git.

cheets64 · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:30

Robbo said:
Question other cultures, don't imply they are all murderers, that just makes you look stupid.

I did not imply that, it no secret honour killings happen in Britain and other western countries because daughters dont have a relationship with the right men.

Threepwood · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:30

We're not the ones who make loads of threads questioning other cultures so blooming often, in a way that would have you believe that 'they' are all like this, or that, etc.

PEOPLE do terrible things, no matter what culture they are related to. But nooooooo, I dont see you starting threads about terrible things that a white brit does, for some strange reason it's always about an ethnic minority.

You know this ofc, horrible troll.

Tummy · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:30

Deadbeat said:
Thread by cheets concerning a racially-orientated issue. Didn't read, assumed to be simple-minded drivel about how multicultural society is a failed experiment - as if the opinions of a bunch of skinhead moron knuckle-draggers waving EDL flags is going to get all the darkies to up and leave. Cue defensive "oh look, can't say anything without being branded a racist" when actually he gets branded a racist for saying racist things. Thread devolves into recursive points being thrown back and forth. Magnolia wins at bigot bingo because he's got OldCoals on his card, lucky git.

Robbo · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:31

Deadbeat said:
Thread by cheets concerning a racially-orientated issue. Didn't read, assumed to be simple-minded drivel about how multicultural society is a failed experiment - as if the opinions of a bunch of skinhead moron knuckle-draggers waving EDL flags is going to get all the darkies to up and leave. Cue defensive "oh look, can't say anything without being branded a racist" when actually he gets branded a racist for saying racist things. Thread devolves into recursive points being thrown back and forth. Magnolia wins at bigot bingo because he's got OldCoals on his card, lucky git.

My word. Genius.

cheets64 · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:34

shadesofgrey said:
We're not the ones who make loads of threads questioning other cultures so blooming often, in a way that would have you believe that 'they' are all like this, or that, etc.

PEOPLE do terrible things, no matter what culture they are related to. But nooooooo, I dont see you starting threads about terrible things that a white brit does, for some strange reason it's always about an ethnic minority.

You know this ofc, horrible troll.

So by your words the government should not of set up a Forced Marriage Unit because we have bigger things to worry about with British problems :confused:

It's been set up because it is a serious problem, a newsworthy problem.

Natwee · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:41

cheets64 said:
It's been set up because it is a serious problem, a newsworthy problem.

something being a serious problem doesnt automatically mean it is a common problem.

Castiel · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:42

Woden said:
I called him racist after what he said in post #15

That doesn't make him a racist, just ill informed.

Threepwood · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:51

cheets64 said:
So by your words the government should not of set up a Forced Marriage Unit because we have bigger things to worry about with British problems

It's been set up because it is a serious problem, a newsworthy problem.

Yeah, that's right! errrr. Not.

How can you not understand what I'm saying? Ofc we need units like these, just like we have units to deal with other things, that have nothing to do with race or creed.

I'll say it again. PEOPLE do bad things. And obviously I'm glad that we set up units to deal with them. I wonder how many white brits raped someone last year. I wonder how many white british pedophiles were arrested last year? I've got this sneaky feeling that things like that (in a country of how many people?) comes to a higher number than 400 victims respectively. Why dont you go and find the sensational story about the youngest victim involved? Then rant about how our OWN culture is not working and we should be sent..errr... somewhere.

Begbie · 30 Mar 2012 at 18:56

cheets64 said:
But can they say no,? I mean don't the family take it to heart, next minute you have an "honour killing" on your hands.

Grass is not always greener.

Do you acctually know anyone that has been through an arranged marriage?

I think you need to do a bit more reading up than guessing.