girl thread ..

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:23

ok, well i feel like a spanner righting this, but ocuk never fails to give out the right advice..

long story short - girl ive known for years, liked her a bit before, she used to like me, she has boyfriend, she does like me i think but obviously she has boyfriend who she says she loves, should i tell her?

ive made me mind up i will tell her soon but shes going uni, should i just leave it?

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:28

me and her get on great, always have done.. this sucks

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:36

i cant stop thinking about her.. **** lol, feel like a soppy fool

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:38

trust me, this ass is worth thinking about..

im not a blubbering mess or anything lol, i just dont usually think about 1 girl this much

and na im not worried about the boyfriend, but we really do get along great, guarantee if she was single shed be on it..

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:43

a.hay said:
If this was my gf you were lusting after, I would laugh at you. Hard.

but your not are you.. so i laugh at you instead

ill probly just leave it then.. just see what happens

i couldnt give a crap about the guy, if this girl likes me more then him then id have no problem stepping in

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:45

^TANK^ said:
Hope her other half cracks your head open personally, unless you leave her alone.

im not gonna pester her, and so me saying i like her deserves my head being cracked open.. nice one

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:47

peetee said:
op you're a chicken, u shudnt hav let her get a bf, wait until it falls apart n take her out.

i know i am.. shoulda said something before, but back then it was more of a "id love to pound that"

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:51

^TANK^ said:
I highlighted it for you.

i can read you know..

"unless you leave her alone" - telling her would mean i deserve to get my head cracked open your saying.. your a fool if you think that

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:55

and i probably wont do anything..

i know its not very nice breaking up somones relationship.. ill just leave it, never know what will happen

and morba, i dont trust you know, because you havnt a clue about the situation between me and her

salami1212 · 23 Aug 2009 at 23:57

Moses99p said:
TTIUWP

We need pictures of the OP and his love in order to make a decision. I'd wager she's massively out of his league, but you never know.

hah.. shes not actually, my standards are usually higher but shes just really nice

^TANK^ said:
You're the fool contemplating trying it on with someone else's girlfriend.

not trying anything on, just telling her i like her and see what she says. I wouldnt ever kiss her while she aws going out with her boyfriend

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:03

ok then morba, she wasnt trying to kiss me at the club... (i know, hoe etc etc)

and tank, what you on about fleshlight.. i described her as a male sex toy?

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:06

Moses99p said:
Lolololol, ZOMG SHE TRIED TO KISS YOU AT A CLUB?!?!?!

How silly I was to judge you. When's the wedding? I'll book some time off.

i was just saying, a girl doesnt usually try to kiss you if they feel nothing do they, or are you that good at pulling?

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:11

Moses99p said:
Hahaha, I'm just saying that almost all people must have kissed a friend when under the influence... but it doesn't actually mean anything.

It's because I have video evidence with a friend saying I'm hung like a horse.

obviouslyy.. ive done it before..

all im saying is me and this girl have history..

[TW]Fox;14737593 said:
Man, you just exude raw cool.

what are you doing.. bore off

Morba said:
lots of people kiss in clubs just because they want to kiss someone. not because they want to jump on their wang.

i know that, i only mentioned it because everyone was saying "your selfish, trying to ruin the relationship".. when i was saying "no, you have a boyfriend"

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:28

[TW]Fox;14737651 said:
HAI GUYZ THERE IS THIS GURL I LEIK BUT SHE WONT LUV ME WOT CAN I DO?!

look mate, at my age you probably never even kissed a girl did you mr i played cs all first year at uni and never lost my virginity til i was 20 odd

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:30

dark_shadow said:
If her friendship is important to you, leave it.

If you want to cure your curiosity, just have a chat with her. If she's mature and understanding she'll say thanks for the info etc but she's happy with her bf.

That way you both know where you stand and move on.

In an ideal world ofc.

yea, all i was thinking of was tell her and see what she says. i think she'll understand if i do tell her.. I just think its better to tell someone you like them because doesnt everyone wish they did to "the one that got away"

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:31

[TW]Fox;14737687 said:
But you are clearly short on action hence the existence of this thread

thats the truth i wont deny it, its been a while

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:38

Tummy said:
like the first 14 years of your life ?

thats true, the first 14 years i didnt have any sexual contact with a girl.. pretty sure you wouldnt of either

dark_shadow said:
Regret is a terrible thing to live with.

If you do intend on telling her, think before you do. And think hard. Think of outcomes and consequences.

outcomes: i go out with her, have amazing sex, get married, make her the happiest woman alive

consequences: she laughs in my face? she says she has no feelings for me and wants to stay friends?

ill just stay quiet for the moment anyway

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:42

Doctor_Zhivago said:
+1

But the majority of people are selfish/egoist, after all it's all about me, me and ME

my life happiness > her boyfriends

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:45

Morba said:
your friends happiness and friendship < your own ego

not talking about my friend.. im talking about the boyfriend..

telling this girl i like her woudlnt make her suddenly unhappy would it, it would either make her feel the same, or feel really happy if she did like me a lot

salami1212 · 24 Aug 2009 at 00:47

Tefal said:
or

she cheats on bf with you, you have awkward unsatisfying sex, she goes back to him, he finds out, he turns out to be platinum87 so breaks your legs, dumps her, she's devastated becomes a crack whore

lol! that wouldnt be a happy ending