God damnit :/ Again (Relationship Thread)

[Unicorn]

Don't know if anyone got my last thread really but me and a girlfriend of almost 4 years broke up. She cheated and i got really down hit the drink etc etc came home from working away 3 months ago met a lovely girl who i was seeing and been with since.. Yeah its only 3 months but its really knocked me back again now am stuck with them feelings again.

How to deal with this again? Any advice considering this is two relationships down the pan in less than half a year.

She left me, My own fault i didn't like the fact she was talking and seeing her ex still. She was hiding texts, facebook, etc.. I confronted her about it and she's seen her ass about it and left me. Strange as hell tbh i don't know if im better off because of this.. I don't get if i did anything wrong? Did i?

Don't need rubbish if you feel like giving abuse or anything don't post because no ones awake at this time friendwise so iv turned here

 

[Unicorn]

Sounds like a lot of the advice is down to me being how i am. So i suppose ill go bit more into that

Im quite a jealous person but i keep it to myself and would never tell her to do anything etc. She goes on nights out and i couldn't care etc. My downside is ex's though.. The thoughts of there WAS something there, What if there still is. Hence why i don't really like contacting any of mine or her messaging hers.
Not sure if that being too unreasonable or me being paranoid or what.. Maybe that might not be right. Hell i can only see every relationship as a chance to improve on myself so i suppose if this is what i will gain out of this one then so be it.

Ill be fair on my thoughts is her not being over her ex 100%. They was a long term couple also and i suppose we was both abit tatty from previous relationships.

Bit of insight into end of her last relationship.. He cheated on her and had no contact up until recently when he left the girl he cheated on her with.

P.s my pron rig is ancient so i may need to build another to kill this feeling

 

[Unicorn]

Just woke up I feel worse :/ Damn

I'm 20 for anyone asking and iv had 3 serious relationships and in the time between the last 2 a lot of flings with hotel staff as im always in them. I'm not worried really about if I did wrong as I really believe I wasn't too much in the wrong. Time will tell what happens next

 

[Unicorn]

I already see enough of the world with my job and had fun when i wasn't in a relationship but iv been out of work for 3 months or so now due to lack of it so this happened.

I have my question answered mainly about if its my fault so thankyou i didn't think i was just being nuts or the paranoid jealous boyfriend tbh. Maybe slightly but not to the extent i was made out to be..

Just a quick update though.. I have had a message today asking if we can talk and that maybe she was abit harsh. Not sure what im going to do got a business trip tomorrow from 6am-11pm so won't be any rushed decisions here