Good Idea?

chris_r

chris_r

chris_r

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Hello,

I am really thinking about applying for a job at a few places and hopefully if i get one, putting away 50% of my wages to fun a trip for two to NYC for i and my girl, and then asking her to get engaged.

I am 18, been with her 14 months and shes 'a member of the family' now, so if it works out and say 'i got a job in 2 weeks' it would only take me a few months and the shopping spree would be on the way.

Good or bad idea?
 
Hey,

I know what your sayin, and i know a lot say 'trust me' but yeah, trust me :)

I dont mean, engage now, then marry. I have no intentions of getting married until 24/25 at least.

Just to show my love :), my bros been engaged 10 years an aint married yet
 
Yep, understand that. It does feel right, course it does or i wouldn't ask her.

It feels horrible being questioned like this over my love, hehe. I don't wanna slow anything down, lifes too short for that crap.

I aint going to get married now, nor anytime soon but engaging her, it does show your love for eachother, it does mean a lot to eachother and it does feel like the next step in any good loving relationship.

As for other comments, yeah, job must come first of course. Is an idea i have in mind though, and willing to take further
 
I know what yall are saying and i appreciate the thoughts, and yes engaging was the 'lets get married' but them days are over, and i don't care what any of you say.

I am certain people now get engaged, and married in the future. Things change and i am glad there is no 'way' of doing it apart from your own.

However, i did ask for your views and did get them so kudos on that part ight.

How many weddings these days are paid by brides parents only may i ask?
 
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