Handling a breakup?

[ja3h]

Hey all,

I'm not sure whether to keep in contact with my ex or not.

Basically, been going out 4 years, lived with eachother for 2 years. 1st year went out, 2nd year lived out with eachother, 3rd year she lived with my family, 4th year she lived back at home. One day when we went out she was being a bit dodgy and after i got home i asked her why she was dodgy and we talked on the phone and she broke up with me. She loves me... but isn't in love with me.

I still love her loads so i'm hurting a bit but i just gotta get over it.

We still chat every now and then but i'm definately not over her (nearly been two weeks) , and i find it hard to chat to her. Shall i just not contact her till i'm over her. Or not contact her full stop?

 

[ja3h]

Well, i'm seeing her tomorrow for the first time since the break up. I can't imagine how hard it will be. She's gonna collect her stuff and sort some things out. And after that we won't talk anymore.

Thanks for your responses, i guess it is was too early to try and be friends.

 

[ja3h]

well thought i'd update. Haven't chatted to her for quite a while now! things are good. Enjoying single life!

 

[ja3h]

thanks for your replies and your amusing comments: 'pay as you go women'

I think the first friday after the break up i did the.. 'go out and get totally hammered, like walking around lost on your own at the end of the night hammered' but i was kinda put off when i got to a club and across the road in trafalgar square there was a drunk lying on the ground puking on the floor then rolling around in it :/

my friend - the good simaritan wanted to help the guy because he thought he was dying or something. So i had to wait nearby the drunk while he got a police officer. So i was waiting on the wall slightly tipsy far enough so i could see him but not the puke he was rolling around in. Then a guy taps him on his shoulder to see if he was alright.... i was wrong he grabbed his wallet and ran off like he had rickets 0.o

So i had to file a report to the policeman >.< then we finally got in the club i got hella pished with my two mates and met two girls and "danced" all night. And for some reason i kept head butting one of them lol due to my lack of coordination. At the end of the night we got outside the club and i had black stuff randomly on my face...

it was make up..but the mystery is how i got it there... the girl i supposedly kept head butting was quite short...like up to my nipple :|

we all randomly walked to from trafalgar square to tottenham court road to oxford circus then bk to to trafalgar. My first drunken adventure.

*i think i need a blog*