Having a Vasectomy

yep I like the fun answers, not so much the bad answers.. can I have my fellas removed???? I guess I came here for some chat on the pros and cons from folks who had this done already. I'll wait for the sense
 
doofski said:
once the initial injection in the nuts pain fades you wont feel anything. mine took about 45 mins, i didnt even need the pain killers after.

Tell her you'll be able to plow the fields and not worry about your seeds germinating in the wrong pastures. she might change her mind about you having it done.
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That was what i tried to say..
 
Sorry, I only realised now that I didn't really tell the back-story.. damn that wine! I'm 42, I have 2 girls, 9 and near 6, been with my wife 14 years this Summer, she's 45. Her 'implant' is about up, I have several mates at school who have had the snip, it's all positive, judging by the fact it's already on page 2, this is one of those topics people know about but kinda keep secret lol! The only thing holding me back is the 'what if?' factor. I love my kids dearly, but if my family got taken away from me, I would like the ability to start again as it were. Hard to broach this one with the missus as you can probably appreciate, was wondering what other people have said/done about this? 42 is no age really, but I also understand my wife feeling insecure, gah it's a headache I could do without tbh, (let alone the potential ballache!)
 
Muban said:
@Madwelsh has been a bit vague as to his partners reasons for wanting him to have it, other than to say her implant is due to be out soon and that they have 2 children already. Her 'moaning' may not just be moaning for no reason, we've got very little to go on. That said, sterilisation for either partner should be thought long and hard about by both parties and should be a decision made together on equal terms. He shouldn't feel pushed into it, but then he isn't being honest about not wanting it which won't be helping.

With regard to reasons why women may want men to have it. Quite often (though not always) it's women who take on the responsibility of contraception when in a long term relationship. Many women don't have an easy relationship with contraception, experience various side effects (moods changes, erratic bleeding patterns, pain etc) and have changes to their body due to it. As women age some methods of contraception are no longer available and choice becomes more limited. Sterilisation is also an option for women, however, usually it requires a general anaesthetic rather than local. There is also a higher failure rate. If the procedure fails it may increase the risk of ectopic pregnancy. None of these are reasons why a man should have to have the snip if he doesn't want to. Just trying to give another perspective on why some women may not just be moaning and might have good reason if the husband doesn't have an objection.
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Yes I have been vague I guess! My wife's insecurity comes from me being a stud!!! (NOT!) My wife is a filipino (not mail bought!) who I met at work. We plan to retire in the Phillipines, I guess she just wants peace of mind, white guys are always getting the househelp pregnant, even Arnie managed it! Like I said, I'm not against it, BUT, our family is spread over the globe, air accidents etc do happen, and nowadays nutters driving vehicles, if I lost everything, maybe I could try and start again. I've told her about this and she says 'don't be ridiculous', which it kind of is, 'til something terrible happens..

Glad I made the thread though, lots of insight, thanks folks.
 
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