Wow, 3 275s and 3 280, that's a really interesting set of cards. I would suggest you sell the 3 280s and 1 of the 275s. I say this because the 275 uses newer 55nm process and thus is cooler and more efficient. It has all 240 stream processors activated, but a slightly smaller memeror bus and total memory amount.
As for selling one of the 275s, tri SLI doesn't scale very well at all (unlike dual card SLI). The money reclaimed can be used on something cool like an SSD, or my personal favourite - going into the bank.
As for RAM, I would suggest this stuff at the minute.
yes you really want 64 bit windows 7, video memory is indeed included in the 32bit limit of 4gb. as x58 supports triple channel memory, then the best confuiguration for gaming uses is 6gb (3x2gb). therefore system ram + video ram is over 7gb - so if you go for a 32 bit os you loose a lot for no gain.
Aye, some games do scale pretty well with tri-SLI. It isn't as cost effective as dual SLI, but if you want ultimate perfomance (and buy a good enough PSU) then there are certainly benefits to see.
As for RAM, I agree that most games are not limited by RAM past 3GB (hence my recommendation not to get 12GB), however I would suggest buying a 64 bit OS. These days 64 bit is becoming the norm and costs no more than 32 bit - so there is no benefit in going with 32 bit unless you have already paid for it.
As for buying 3GB ram instead, in those benchmarks there is certainly no benefit going for 6GB over 3GB, but the benchmarks do not represent all current (and future) games, so I would advise going for 6GB instead of 3GB if only for future usage and non-gaming applications/multitasking. Also, per GB a 6GB kit is cheaper than a 3GB kit and if you ever want to upgrade the 3GB system you will have to either replace the RAM or populate all RAM slots - which isn't ideal.
Sorry, I was just having a hard time wrapping my head round the concept, £1000 worth of PC just to play 1 game. I mean, sure, Crysis warhead is a good game, but is it really that good?
Obviously, its your money and you can spend it how you like, but I would urge you to try out some other recent games as well. Some examples that immediately jump to mind are Mass Effect (1&2), Fallout 3, Mount & Blade, Saints Row 2 and Bad Company 2.
As for speed of RAM, technically the i7 900 series is only rated at 1066MHz, tri channel, but we all know that it is perfectly happy at 1600MHz with 3 DIMMs occupied. As for gaming performance difference between 1066MHz and 1600MHz, it is pretty tiny - mainly because the triple channel memory offers such massive bandwidth. As for latency, there are small but definite benefits for going with low latency RAM in Memory intensive apps and benchmarks, in gaming however the difference is very small.
It doesn't sound like you are being constrained by a very tight budget, if this is the case I would suggest just going for a 64bit OS and 6GB RAM. It will cost a little bit more for the RAM, but it will mean you get better performance in non-gaming scenarios and means you don't have to upgrade RAM till much later.