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for higher resolutions the extra memory comes in handy, but if you're running at say 1280x1024, then not really...
that said, i'd advise you to go for 512mb, as it seems to be the minimum these days for games graphics, and so it ought to last that bit longer.
At what resolution do you game?
go for the 512mb