Help with a girl...

dowie said:
If the boyfriend isn't a blood relative or a mate then so what? Most girls will have several boyfriends before they get engaged/married and until they do they're fair game (unless dating one of your mates). I.e. the chances are that for any particular boyfriend a girl has she is most likely to *not* end up with him long term... she will likely be dumping him at some point in time and if you like her then just go for it - she'll either say no or she'll dump the boyfriend that was due to get dumped at some point down the line anyway... if the boyfriend was making her totally happy then she wouldn't be interested... she's not married.
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Take note people with this attitude generally end up in a bad way. If said person is in a relationship and you know about this yet still go in for the kill expect a ****ing good kicking and rightly so. Marriage has Sweet FA to do with it, love is love regardless of a wedding band and wedding certificate! :)
 
^TANK^ said:
Take note people with this attitude generally end up in a bad way. If said person is in a relationship and you know about this yet still go in for the kill expect a ****ing good kicking and rightly so. Marriage has Sweet FA to do with it, love is love regardless of a wedding band and wedding certificate! :)
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Yeah... but then you can look at that from the flipside; if a girl leaves their boyfriend for somebody else, you've probably saved them from worse further down the line.

It takes two.
 
Theophany said:
Yeah... but then you can look at that from the flipside; if a girl leaves their boyfriend for somebody else, you've probably saved them from worse further down the line.

It takes two.
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Unless they split up stay well out of it. I find it completely ridicules that people have the attitude that its ok to try their luck with a man or woman that's spoken for unless they're *MARRIED*.
 
Yup, 'fraid to say your in the friend zone. The only way to get out is by using alcohol, roofies, rope or cable ties, a substantial amount of lime and a good alibi.
 
Ive never shagged anyone with a boyfriend/husband but have in the past played away from home, surely if she cheats on her boyfriend it has nothing to do with the poster its her thats scum not him.
 
^TANK^ said:
Take note people with this attitude generally end up in a bad way. If said person is in a relationship and you know about this yet still go in for the kill expect a ****ing good kicking and rightly so. Marriage has Sweet FA to do with it, love is love regardless of a wedding band and wedding certificate! :)
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I've never really got this attitude (tho I'm no saint I don't intentionally get involved with a women thats in a relationship) but at the end of the day its not like the guy is forcing her to do it, love isn't really love if shes putting it out there but people seem to want to live under some kind of pretense.

If it was the other way around I sure couldn't blame a guy if she was encouraging him and I'm not gonna pretend there was nothing wrong if nothing happened purely because the guy turned her down.
 
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Sayso said:
Ive never shagged anyone with a boyfriend/husband but have in the past played away from home, surely if she cheats on her boyfriend it has nothing to do with the poster its her thats scum not him.
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Completely agree with you unless the person she is playing away with fully acknowledges she has a boyfriend in which case its pick axe handle time baby. :)
 
dude.. there's no girl and you don't mess around with anyone else bar your own little palm of lies :) you and a girl? unless she won a lottery i can't see her messing around with you..
 
Lazder said:
Someone update me on OP reputations... You seem to know him well... I feel alone and missed out :(
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He fits in somewhere above Tony Williams and somewhere below, well, I can't really think of anyone else. :p
 
Lazder said:
Someone update me on OP reputations... You seem to know him well... I feel alone and missed out :(
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Rroff said:
Theres probably a limit as to how much you want to know.
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danza said:
He fits in somewhere above Tony Williams and somewhere below, well, I can't really think of anyone else. :p
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I used to be a douche, I posted about a lotto win that was a lie and a troll. I did win a smaller amount, but not the massive amount I bragged about. Rroff, you should know me better than most on here, am I douche-like on EVE? Nah :p

I am trying to redeem myself for the troll lotto win...
 
Jaffa_Far said:
I did post a reply, about mid way through this thread, in in, I detailed what I think would be the best cause of action...I was called gay for it...
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You shouldn't have created this thread! I would hope most human beings aren't cancerous ***** and would be able to workout in their own mind that hurting someone unnecessarily just to get their willy wet makes them the lowest of the low.
 
Jaffa_Far said:
Ok, so, first things first, I ended it with my previous girlfriend on 17th May as I had enough of her crazy ****. Was with her nearly 3 years.
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So you are on the rebound feeling unwanted and desperate for love….

Jaffa_Far said:
Righto, so, there is this girl I fancy the **** out of and I work with her.
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Stop right there. NEVER EVER **** THE PAYROLL!!!
Jaffa_Far said:
We get the bus together and sometimes on my day's off I will get it with her just for fun.
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YOU ****** Loser!!!!
Jaffa_Far said:
She looks at me as more than a friend,
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You are firmly in the friend zone…..
Jaffa_Far said:
she flirts, we constantly hug and mess about together, I've slept at her house.
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All normal stuff. Its called girls playing the field….
Jaffa_Far said:
She has told me I'm the nicest guy she has ever met
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That’s girlspeak for “I will never sleep with you”
Jaffa_Far said:
...1 problem...she is with my cousin (an item).
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I knew it. Dear god don’t go there….
Jaffa_Far said:
I have been told by 7 other members of staff that the way she looks at me is NOT how a friend looks at another friend, they reckon it is something more...
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Everyone likes to watch a train crash…..

Jaffa_Far said:
I don't know what to do
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Yes you do its called STAY AWAY!!!
Jaffa_Far said:
she knows how much I want her
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Oh god you fool…. I bet you are the laughing stock amongst all her friends….[/QUOTE] , but she says we are just friends...
Jaffa_Far said:
No means no!!!!
Jaffa_Far said:
thing is, she also said fat guys are cute and awesome, more cushion for the pushing... We've been out for drinks together and got ****** together...some folks at work think something is going on between us, and to be honest, I wish there was!!
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Keep wishing!!!!
Jaffa_Far said:
What do I do? :(:confused:
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Leave her alone before you get a restraining order!!!
Jaffa_Far said:
EDIT: I would like to add, we have sooo much in common and we have both told each other things from our past that we wouldn't tell anyone else...I trust her with my life and vice versa
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Oh god…
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