Here's a question for yous

anggie · 15 Oct 2006 at 09:42

There is 4 of us that kinda run about together, well one of us is organising to go to Gatecrasher.

Heres the dilema, they have asked the other 2 to go but not me. Ok, Ok I might not enjoy it(surely my decision). Or might not get time off of my work to go ,but my mum has always told me its polite to ask no matter what.

How left out do I feel especially when the other 2 have been asked

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Do you think Im over reacting and just let it go, or should I say something?

Sorry about ravin but I'm a bit annoyed!!!

Reply's would be appreciated.

dirtydog · 15 Oct 2006 at 09:45

I'd feel the same as you, and if it was me I would say something to them, and ask why I didn't get asked

Ex-RoNiN · 15 Oct 2006 at 10:08

Maybe they know you wouldn't enjoy it? Or they don't have enough tickets? Or they are going "privately", if you know what I mean

Or just ask them

JohnnyG · 15 Oct 2006 at 10:15

You should arrange to go to MoS or somewhere & not invite them, that'll show 'em

No need to apologise for raving either, maybe that's why they didn't ask you

Biohazard · 15 Oct 2006 at 11:13

HEY YOU GUYS!

A2Z · 15 Oct 2006 at 12:55

just say 'wheres the invite?' and when they say oh didnt think you would like it blahblah didnt think i would be allowed to go just say 'ohhh ok i see how it is....' then they will be like 'nonono its not like that off course you can come we just didnt think'

no biggy

SidewinderINC · 15 Oct 2006 at 12:57

ive had this situation plenty of times, i ended up ditching that group of 'friends' even if they think you wont like it or think you might be busy, they should still ask!

cleanbluesky · 15 Oct 2006 at 12:59

Tell me anggie, how do you deal with your friends if they are trying to exclude you?

Why might they be trying to exclude you?

How can you find out whether they are trying to exclude you, without looking like you care?

Fantom · 15 Oct 2006 at 13:56

Biohazard said:
HEY YOU GUYS!

lol!

fatiain · 15 Oct 2006 at 14:35

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titchard · 15 Oct 2006 at 14:37

fatiain said:
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ROFL.

Just ask 'em! it's not like they are going to spaz out! sometimes mates forget! i've done it by mistake my mates have done it by mistake! you just talk to them, and they go "oh yeah! sorry!" you go and party and it's all gravy.

Rich

Carzy · 15 Oct 2006 at 16:18

anggie said:
Sorry about ravin but I'm a bit annoyed!!!

But you're not? HAHA!

titchard said:
ROFL.

Just ask 'em! it's not like they are going to spaz out! sometimes mates forget! i've done it by mistake my mates have done it by mistake! you just talk to them, and they go "oh yeah! sorry!" you go and party and it's all gravy.

Rich

Don't be silly. Now the problem sounds so simple and undeserving of a thread on the forum...oh...wait.