Ok cheers guys.
I was talking to my girlfriend lastnight and she said that she wanted to break up, so we did.
This morning i get a phonecall from her saying that maybe things can work out after a few weeks of having some time to ourselves, and she said that nothing would happen with another person, but if it was, that she doesnt want me to hate her.
Now i just cant get my head around it, to me that seems like a break but we really have broken up "/