How soon is too soon?

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mejinks

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To tell your new S/O you love them?

Im having an argument with my mate about this issue. I say that there isn't really a time limit, but not within the first month surely?

I made the classic schoolboy error many years ago and she never spoke to me again, so I'm a little more guarded with my feelings. :)
 
As clichéd as it sounds, when it feels right. You can't out an exact time on it, just when you feel ready. This does not apply when you are steaming drunk or stalking someone.
 
personally i wouldnt say it untill you get to the exact moment when it feels right, for me i just knew when to say it, dont most people just get hit by a moment when they know its right to say the dreaded 3 words?
 
Blackstar said:
As clichéd as it sounds, when it feels right. You can't out an exact time on it, just when you feel ready. This does not apply when you are steaming drunk or stalking someone.
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If you are drunk or stalking, the earliest opportunity is the best, yes?

I think I was with my current girlfriend for a month or so when I said it...but she'd said it before me. We just clicked though and get one well etc. unlike some of my exs where I never said it.

InvG
 
Just get drunk and say it - if she reacts badly deny all knowledge of it the next day, if she reacts well then happy days :p
 
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