How would you chat up a waitress?

[BlackDragon]

Right, serious thread time!

Story is, I went to a bar place on Tuesday with a few friends, and there was this very friendly (but shy) waitress. She seems quite different to most girls you'd see about. More traditional sort of girl if you get what I mean.

So anyway, I wasn't able to get talk to her properly or get her number that night because she was working. I contacted the duty manager later that night inquiring about the girl, and he suggests I turned up the next time she works and get to speak to her then.

How shall I go about this when I'm there? As she will be working, I can't really stop her and talk for ages! So I was thinking I should ask for her name, then ask what time she finishes her shift, and if she would like me to be waiting when she finishes her shift! Alternatively I could just ask for her number...


What are your thoughts OCUK'ers??

 

[BlackDragon]

Well spoke to a mate on the phone and he suggested I don't ask her for her number or whatever because she might be used to being chatted up. So he suggest I talk to her about the upcoming event next week, which she asked if I was going to when I was last there, and ask if she will be there, etc.

Guess that is better than my original plan!

Oh and yeah contacting the manager was really the only way I could find out when she would be there. I'm a busy man so I can't really go down there every night waiting!