I did the right thing, didn't I?

megzy

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Yes its another one of my threads, but this time I think that anyone thats going to be nasty shouldn't bother cause I feel like **** already.

Well I found out that my (now ex) boyfriend was only using me for one thing, and when he couldn't get it he wouldn't bother seeing me. He also kept eyeing up one of his mates girlfriends, right in front of me.

So basically I told him to go **** himself and that I want all my stuff back, he still hasn't bothered giving it back.
What should I do?
Also did I do the right thing breaking up with him?

Thanks
Megz :(
 
krooton said:
What stuff of yours does he have?

How long have you been together?

Did you guys not connect much outside of the physcial aspect of your relationship?
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He has a pair of my shoes, a pair of jeans and a load of hair stuff.

We were only together for 2 months.

We did kind of connect but not very well, he kind of looked down his nose at me. :(
 
rare said:
2 months? :/ How old is he. Just ask him for you stuff back and move on.
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He is 19, I've asked him for my stuff back but he just won't give it back. We only ever hung round with his mates, so no we don't have any mutual mates.
 
singist said:
Write off the "stuff" and get on with YOUR life.

If you worry about the "stuff" it will give you all sorts of excuses to get in touch/have a go etc .............. let it go and move on.

Surely you have learnt by now that ALL men are after one thing? ..... it's just that some have "it" as the highest priority and for others "it" is farther down the list of things.

You are a good looking girl; you'll have lots of chances to find someone who's more suited to what you want/need; in the meantime, go out and enjoy your life WITHOUT men.


Yeah, you seem to have done the right thing.
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I want my shoes back! They are my favourite pair!
No I'm not going lesbian :p
Thanks this has really settled my mind and cheered me up :)
 
The police?
My parents don't want to get involved. I'll just get my mate James to turn up at his door :p 6ft, and the same wide, farmer guy should be able to get my stuff back :p
 
M0T said:
You have done the right thing if he was just using you as a piece of meat.

Anyway, if you want your stuff back go round when you know he won't be there. If he lives with his parents then explain why you are there and ask them if they will fetch you your things. If he lives with mates take a few beers round and swap for stuff. Jobs a goodun.
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Its not actually in his house, all my stuff is in his car. I was gonna take it all home one weekend but forgot to and left it in his car :mad:
 
CChrisca said:
You really need someone to tell you that you did the right thing when you dropped him because he was just using you for sex????? :rolleyes:
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And to help me get my stuff back, I am only 16, I don't really know how relationships work :rolleyes: to you to
 
Raist said:
ALL the proper things said right there.

Megster - forget about the clothes. They've probably been burnt by now anyway. Move on!
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:eek: Not the shoes
:mad: He is so dead if he has burnt my shoes :mad:
 
The_TailGunner said:
lesson 1: dont go out with a guy just because he has a car.

Lesson 2: if you do, remember to take your stuff out of his car before you realise that a 19 year old bloke will only want one thing from a 16 year old girl.

:D

not sure why your parents dont want to get involed...i would think i would be more supportive as a dad in that situation

is it because they told you not to hang around with him, but you did anyway, and now they are saying "told you so"? (i hated when mine did that to me)

do i actually have a point?

apparently not :D
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1) I didn't, he only passed his car test 3 weeks after we got together.
2) Thought he was different, he was nice to me the first couple of weeks.
3) Parents love him.
4) Yes you did, but not anymore :p
 
Thanks everyone, feeling so much better now :p
Just arranged to meet up with one of his mates :p
I have one of his mates t-shirts so... um.. I have to give it back :D
 
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