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Unless people are clinically depressed the best advice is always to just get on with it and stop complaining. Ask your girlfriend if she's cheating on your, or dump her. Talk to your parents. Chew a lot of gum and stop smoking.
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Borris said:
LOL - seriously though, the only way to get these things off your mind are to either face them (and deal with them / find out the truth etc) or keep busy.
Best cure? Think about those who:
1. Have no parents
2. Have no girlfriend
3. Actually have a bad life with nothing good in it.
There are so many people in this world who have it a lot worse yet remain positive. Feel grateful and pleased for what you have.
1. Have no parents
2. Have no girlfriend
3. Actually have a bad life with nothing good in it.
There are so many people in this world who have it a lot worse yet remain positive. Feel grateful and pleased for what you have.
Borris said:
Lol. I just thought I'd ask for advice not for some stupid ass comment :\
Smoking - I'll try that, gum *** I suppose.
I don't feel like confronting my parents as I don't want them sad or anything, you know I'm mainly upfront about things and don't drop hints.
Girlfriend wise, anything I say get's her angry at me :\ I'll guess on that note, I'll leave her be.
EDIT: Mikol..looking at it from a different view, you are right. I must remain positive.
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Vita said:
All this and more on the next epidsode of neighbours...
Who are your real parents anyway?
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he'd need a spare £1000 for that, if not more.Zip said:
Things sound tough for you mate, you may get a fair bit of stick from the lads here so I'm gonna try and give you some honest advice...
*Be thankful for the things you do have, I don't want to make light of your situation but by the sound of things - it could be worse, you're not starving somewhere in a third world country, you have your mind and your body, and you can put almost any problem right by using these things.
*I really know nothing about your woman problems, so I'll keep the advice general, I personally have no time for cheaters, and if you're suspicions are confirmed, move on (as hard as it is) you just don't need the aggro mate, life is too short, however, you need to confront her about this, you might just be having an attack of paranoia, and though it may be difficult to approach the subject be strong, there may well be nothing to worry about and it will be worth it.
*I can't offer much about your birthparent dillema, this may be something that stays with you for the rest of your life, and you may just need to accept it, which is a very healthy way of killing off impossible problems. As long as the family you are with, blood related or not, love you, you really can't complain.
I hope this helps, I really do. Remember, you can overcome almost any obstacle in life if you really try, stay true to yourself, find something you love to do which is creative or productive, find good people to share your life with. Some things we just get dealt in life, and though we may really hate them, there's nowt me can do, so even though you should never stop caring, please try to stop worrying, and enjoy what you have.
*Be thankful for the things you do have, I don't want to make light of your situation but by the sound of things - it could be worse, you're not starving somewhere in a third world country, you have your mind and your body, and you can put almost any problem right by using these things.
*I really know nothing about your woman problems, so I'll keep the advice general, I personally have no time for cheaters, and if you're suspicions are confirmed, move on (as hard as it is) you just don't need the aggro mate, life is too short, however, you need to confront her about this, you might just be having an attack of paranoia, and though it may be difficult to approach the subject be strong, there may well be nothing to worry about and it will be worth it.
*I can't offer much about your birthparent dillema, this may be something that stays with you for the rest of your life, and you may just need to accept it, which is a very healthy way of killing off impossible problems. As long as the family you are with, blood related or not, love you, you really can't complain.
I hope this helps, I really do. Remember, you can overcome almost any obstacle in life if you really try, stay true to yourself, find something you love to do which is creative or productive, find good people to share your life with. Some things we just get dealt in life, and though we may really hate them, there's nowt me can do, so even though you should never stop caring, please try to stop worrying, and enjoy what you have.
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sr4470 said:
Yea, because that's what I was suggesting
Get a grip, I was suggesting he APPRECIATES what he has, rather that looks at what he has badly.Might want to read it again, focusing on the ending line:
Mikol said:
At least the OP understood, which ultimately, is the point in this thread.
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sr4470 said:
From the OP's reply I thought he did appreciate the comment...
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Mikol said:
Fair enough, if you were making a serious point. But I'm not in the business of telling other people how to feel. If he actually confronts the issues hes brought up, he may realise of his own accord that he has it better than he suggests in the OP. Although the comment has been taken on board, so I have nothing else to add.