sorry it was confusing lol
anyway i figurded it out....
i was booting the cd within windows and not from start-up, so i couldn't delete the partition as it was needed to run system files for windows to stay running. so i changed the boot order in dos and booted from cd, went into the menu and deleted the partition. then i made a new partition of 12000mb (12GB) for windows (as in the manual someone in this thread posted a link to, thanks by the way) and it is formatting now. Now my only other question is the other part of the HDD that has not being formatted do i do that through windows? (right-click on the drive and click format?)
thanks for the help everyone