WOOOHOOO!
Hi everyone
Well I've just built my first pc! I'd like to thank you all for the help
It was so much fun...annnnd it went without a single hitch!!
I finally decided on:
I7 950 - plopped into the motherboard like silk
P6X58D-E - NICE!!
6GB Corsair XMS 3 - All Recognised 1st time
Silverstone FT02B V1.4 - Sooo Pretty

And it has the AP181 fans included!
Corsair HX850 PSU - Nice PSU but I'm not happy with the sata power cables as they have too many connections which get in the way when trying to tuck them behind MB tray :/ Any idea where I can get one with just one conector on the end?
Sony optiarc 24x DVD RW - fits in the top bay no problems

64GB C300 SSD - Everyone that said get one of these was right!

1TB Sammy F3 Spinpoint - what it says on the tin
Windows 7 Home premium - Joy to use
N460GTX Cyclone OC edit- tried the crysis demo and it plays everything on high - maybe I will get another one and try for Very High!?
Thermalright Silver arrow - HUGE!! I've tightened it as much as possible but it still wiggles a little...is that normal? also I have attached one of the fans to the cpu fan header on the mb and the other to chassis fan header... is this ok? and what should I do now to control them?
Now all I need to do is some cable management (it's not pretty at the moment) and find some tutorials on getting the most out of this sucker (recommendations?)....then probably onto OC'ing? ...then onto build number 2!! LOL!
Also need to decide on which monitor to get?...tempted to either get 2 U2311's or 1 U2410? I've looked in the monitor forums and they both have pro's and cons obviously...and do I really need an ips monitor as I am no way a professional...photoshop, maya and zbrush are hobbies at the moment
thanks AGAIN!