If your partner cheated on you...

Kerplunk · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:42

What would you do to get revenge?

or would you?

Justintime · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:42

Nothing, wish her well and let her go. Revenge is for kids.

Darkwave · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:43

Personally I'd just dump them and cut off all contact.

Revenge can just make a bad situation much worse.

Cupra · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:44

id probably go nuts

Darkwave · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:45

Cupra said:
id hit them with a shovel or maybe with my car

You will want a get out of jail free card then.

-westy- · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:48

Having been there, just cut off all contact and wish them well. You're never going to trust them again.

yaboy · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:49

I'd go Eminem on that **

romperstomper · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:50

Justintime said:
Nothing, wish her well and let her go. Revenge is for kids.

me too !

In fact often I think she could she may be better with someone else due to my lack of commitment !

Jotun · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:52

I wouldn't try and get revenge, I'd just finish things and try and move on. If I tried to get revenge then I'd probably end up regretting it later on.

Tom|Nbk · 24 Mar 2008 at 02:54

Dump and cut off all contact. I doubt I could work it out with someone regardless of how awesome the girl is.

Azagoth · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:04

Lets just say that when I found out that my fiancée was cheating on me with one of my best friends, a guy I'd grown up with and known for over 25 years, I was all calm and just let them get on with it. Yeah, I dumped her and haven't spoken to him since, but I stayed calm and he still thinks that I'm going to put him in the ground sometime.

The actual suggestion of unadulterated violence is far more effective than actually carrying it out, let him live with the fear that one day I may just jump out of a hedge and go at him until he starts twitching.

Having said that though, I have been tempted to get a few mates together, wear balaclavas and drag his arse into a transit van. Then drive him into the countryside, strip him naked and make him dig his own grave before just driving off laughing.

Guess we'll see.

Dunks · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:06

Azagoth said:
Having said that though, I have been tempted to get a few mates together, wear balaclavas and drag his arse into a transit van. Then drive him into the countryside, strip him naked and make him dig his own grave before just driving off laughing.

This.

Justintime · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:07

Not a bad plan aside from the kidnapping charge and maybe a few others resulting in a few years vacation. IMO just don't do it

Kerplunk · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:11

What about having access to their "jersey" account with all their details already pre-filled in?

Dj_Jestar · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:13

Walk away.

Burnsy2023 · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:17

Justintime said:
Nothing, wish her well and let her go. Revenge is for kids.

I probably wouldn't wish her well, but I totally agree that revenge is for immature kids.

Burnsy

Monkeynut · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:18

I'd let the other guy know before dumping her, then I can walk away and what he does is up to him.

Ghosteh · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:26

Knowing from what as happened from previous experience, I'd probably feel sorry for myself, then try and win her back, only to get cheated on again, and then finally dumped lol.

Although, this time around, I hope I'm not such a wimp about it and dump her arse lol

.

Burnsy2023 · 24 Mar 2008 at 03:28

Ghosteh said:
Knowing from what as happened from previous experience, I'd probably feel sorry for myself, then try and win her back, only to get cheated on again, and then finally dumped lol.

Although, this time around, I hope I'm not such a wimp about it and dump her arse lol .

Living on the optimistic side of life I see

BUrnsy

benneh · 24 Mar 2008 at 04:03

I've cheated back in the past. Tis silly

. Just have a chat. There's probably a reason (you would imagine !

). If she aint happy, let her go.