Im a little bit shallow

MiNxYyY · 19 Sep 2010 at 19:49

Broken Hope said:
What an odd thing to say.

not really.

I wont befriend a fat person either due to this, Babbling on about being overweight, stop crying about it and put the chips down fatty..

Morba · 19 Sep 2010 at 19:56

MiNxYyY said:
not really.

I wont befriend a fat person either due to this, Babbling on about being overweight, stop crying about it and put the chips down fatty..

Generally I have found that people 'cry' about being fat when ignorant smaller people go on about it

MiNxYyY · 19 Sep 2010 at 20:03

Morba said:
Generally I have found that people 'cry' about being fat when ignorant smaller people go on about it

Oh really?

Well they should take some notice and stop being such a slob.

DM · 19 Sep 2010 at 20:09

Nate75 said:
I am older and wiser now, and am looking for a girl with big ****.

My man, its all about priorities.

Tefal · 19 Sep 2010 at 20:11

Nate75 said:
I am older and wiser now, and am looking for a girl with a big ****.

Morba · 19 Sep 2010 at 20:17

Milkybk said:
Nothing wrong with being shallow. It means you don't shag munters.

Because only stunners are good in bed? You'd be very very wrong if you thought that

MiNxYyY · 19 Sep 2010 at 20:39

Milkybk said:
Fat birds try harder, because lets be honest, they need too . Therefore they're bound to be ok for a shag . You just need to be able to live with yourself the next day haha.

dont forget the hard work of having to push your way through the rolls of fat in the hope that you find it eventually

Morba · 19 Sep 2010 at 20:42

Milkybk said:
Fat birds try harder, because lets be honest, they need too . Therefore they're bound to be ok for a shag . You just need to be able to live with yourself the next day haha.

Not just talking huge women here. In the context of the thread I'm saying unattractive.

TheCenturion · 19 Sep 2010 at 21:04

Hedge said:
Alright chaps.

After being single for a long time now, and after having brief flings with the occasional female, and not giving them a chance for anything more, ive concluded that Im being a bit too shallow.

Ive had brief flings with one or two girls whove been funny, had same interests, great sense of humour etc... yet they were average looking.

The thing is, Im only average looking myself but I cant seem to handle the idea of having a relationship with someone whos just a bit "meh" on the eye.

Am I wrong to want a honey, or is it time I just accepted pretty girls are for pretty boys.

Im 26 now and Im all alone! lol

I'm not sure OP. 26 isn't an age to be worried about being alone. You can get a pretty girl. BUT remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So, you have to try and find something wonderful about a girl, and make that the attractive thing.

However, at least you are open to admitting that you place a lot of emphasis on looks. A lot of (teenage) girls say that they don't care that much what people look like, when deep down, they really do. Remember that sight is probably the most powerful sense.

Nitefly · 19 Sep 2010 at 21:06

Broken Hope said:
What an odd thing to say.

I said it as a presumption that can be rebutted, but a presumption nevertheless. I used to be fat and now I'm not. I find very overweight people irritating due to their lack of care for their own body.

Hedge · 19 Sep 2010 at 21:09

I have had moments with some big girls, one was huge and I just couldnt quite get my head around it afterwards, I quite enjoyed it at the time i think, i was quite intoxicated but afterwards I felt a bit dodgy lol

Im working on the gym thing, and one day Ill get my finances in order to have a good wardrobe. I think I just foolishly want a goodun to land on my doorstep.

its not so much about what other people think, but physical attraction is quite a major part in things. Ive got pretty good banter when Im going and I can make most girls laugh but I never find myself in situations where I get the opportunity. I get too wasted half the time. doh

unwashed potato! · 19 Sep 2010 at 22:57

PMKeates said:
I disagree with you entirely. It's not "fake" at all. Attractive people are attracted to attractive people. If you want to find an attractive person, the best way to do that is to be attractive.

If you look more attractive clean shaven, do that, and you will be more attractive. It really isn't rocket science! It doesn't make you a soul-less gimp because you want to be attractive!

Being a handsome, well kept, well-off stud does not make you any less of a person. It just adds to it.

you're missing what i'm saying. first what you've said with "Attractive people are attracted to attractive people" what does this mean and what's your point? actually perhaps this is not a thread to get side-tracked in.

what you're missing is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. to say if you look more attractive clean shaven is silly as each person will have a different view and if like me for instance i like having a small beard but i know it's not very nice, now if i had been fake and shaven to get a girl as it looks better only to some girls i'd have ended up with someone who doesn't like my small beard which is not good. i don't like after shave and i hate perfume even more. i got a girl who doesn't wear perfume and it was one of the reasons i was really attracted to her. should she have been fake and put perfume on when she wouldn't normally as some guys do like it?

It really isn't rocket science!

do that, and you will be more attractive.

to who? another perfect example is Russell brand. i think he looks aweful, but girls like him. should he get a hair cut and wear better clothes so that girls like the fake him or should he be the real him and do what he wants so he gets girls that like the real him?

It really isn't rocket science!

blairw · 19 Sep 2010 at 23:14

G-MAN2004 said:
Listen up OP, ignore all of these nerds and their dubious suggestions. You won't get Barbara down the nursing home trying those. If you want the best looking women, you need to believe in taking care of yourself, and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine.

If you wake up in the morning and your face is a little puffy, you should put on an ice pack whilst doing your stomach crunches. You should be aiming for a thousand. After this, remove the ice pack and use a deep pore cleanser lotion. Then in the shower, use a water activated gel cleanser, followed by a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. You should then apply an herb-mint facial mask which you must leave on for ten minutes whilst you prepare the rest of your routine.

Always use an aftershave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. After this, use moisturiser, then an anti-ageing eye balm followed by a final moisturising protective lotion.

You will then be ready to get any woman you desire, with a 100% success rate.

Only works if your Christian Bale

Jambo · 19 Sep 2010 at 23:53

Mammalian said:
to who? another perfect example is Russell brand. i think he looks aweful, but girls like him. should he get a hair cut and wear better clothes so that girls like the fake him or should he be the real him and do what he wants so he gets girls that like the real him?

Are you bisexual? Why a male example?

I do know what you are saying but there are generally accepted ideas of what an attractive person looks like.

You know that Shakira is more attractive.

This is an extreme example but there are different levels of this obviously.

And whilst I was looking around for pictures I found this for the lols.

Edit: OP, I'm exactly the same as you but I'm 29.