I think I get what rover416i's referring to, having just had a Fiat Bravo 1.9 multijet diesel... something - it claimed to have 120bhp but felt massively underpowered for that.
It was full of AIDS...not driver aids, but Bad AIDS. Well, it was full of toys, and electronic stuff, like auto windows, cruise control, climate control, windows media type HU.
All of these were arse and didn't work properly, particularly the HU.
The worst thing was the handling, though. It wallowed all over the road, bounced round corners and I nearly ended up in the passenger footwell several times when going round roundabouts, the seats were so rubbish.
It also had a "City" button to make the steering even lighter, which was completely pointless given that it was already light and gave no feedback whatsoever.
So it was slow, and crap. I know exactly what no interaction with the car or road feels like now. It's not good.
I'd prefer both. I don't want super performance megafast car-ness... if I'm completely disconnected from what the wheels are doing in relation to the road. But nor do I want something that handles like a go cart, but is slow.
Something in the middle would be nice.