I only asked, as after I noticed (stupid, stupid me!) my error, I changed them round. Still with the negative lead on the dead car on an earth point. Then I remembered speaking to a friend about jumpstarts a while ago, and he had thought that you were supposed to connect -ve to -ve and +ve to +ve, so I turned off and hooked them up briefly like that, before checking in an old haynes, and seeing it said "use an earth", and reverting to that method.
I'm positive (haha) that I did this after realising my mistake, and having the correct terminals, but in my "after-reading-MickeyD's-post-panic", I couldn't remember if I did this before or after noticing the crossed cables mistake.
But it didn't blow up, cables weren't hot, no smoke, no sparks, no flames, no nothing. So I'm hoping it's ok!