Soldato
I never really reach out for advise or ask questions on the subject of women and dating but lately I've had a bit of a headache with a girl I met on Tinder.
So we both matched, chatted and I swiped her number and thought of pursuing her for a bit of beef stew. Anyway she calls me up and we speak for a bit and she seemed alright at first, I could tell she was up for meeting. She said she was a hairdresser and had a child. She looked really good in her pics as she did photoshoots and beauty contests. So anyway it was a week or so later we decided to meet up.
I don't know about you guys but I geniunally like to take the lead. So I at first suggested a few drinks! She said no! She said she wanted to have something to eat and I suggested a Chinese and have it at mine or hers and she said "I'm not like that". She said it had to be KFC so I thought go on then! She wanted Chicken.
I had no car at the time so picked her up in my Ford Transit van. It was after I finished work so about 10pm she wouldn't eat inside KFC as she had gym clothes on. She kept moaning about wanted to get out of the city and eat the KFC. Anyway we picked it up (I paid) we never really made it far, we eat it in a car park, kissed and went to mine.
I won't go into much detail but she got the Full Tony Williams Experience and I dropped her off. She constantly called me, I woke up with 6 missed calls one day. Looking back it was bad the calls kept coming all day and night.
I met her a few more times at hers, she's alright but there's no potential for a relationship. She's quite rude, lied about having a job, keeps trying to get me to pay for KFCs and chippies (and no she isn't fat)
So anyway it took me months and months of ignoring calls and texts to get rid of her, this was all over Christmas and I pretty much got rid of her. I met another bird and things are going really well and we've began a relationship. Anyway only just lately the KFC bird started calling me again asking for me to do bad things to her. I decline her.
Anyway I've told the new girl this story too so she knows and trusts me. Should I be completely upfront with the KFC girl and tell her I'm with someone else and she how she takes it? She's definitely the angry, stalker type so I don't want to reject her.
Or should I keep ignoring her and hope she re-gets the message? I block her but she calls from private numbers. I don't want to change my number.
She only just started calling me again yesterday. She also introduced me to the kid on the third date and I feel such an idiot falling into that trap.
So we both matched, chatted and I swiped her number and thought of pursuing her for a bit of beef stew. Anyway she calls me up and we speak for a bit and she seemed alright at first, I could tell she was up for meeting. She said she was a hairdresser and had a child. She looked really good in her pics as she did photoshoots and beauty contests. So anyway it was a week or so later we decided to meet up.
I don't know about you guys but I geniunally like to take the lead. So I at first suggested a few drinks! She said no! She said she wanted to have something to eat and I suggested a Chinese and have it at mine or hers and she said "I'm not like that". She said it had to be KFC so I thought go on then! She wanted Chicken.
I had no car at the time so picked her up in my Ford Transit van. It was after I finished work so about 10pm she wouldn't eat inside KFC as she had gym clothes on. She kept moaning about wanted to get out of the city and eat the KFC. Anyway we picked it up (I paid) we never really made it far, we eat it in a car park, kissed and went to mine.
I won't go into much detail but she got the Full Tony Williams Experience and I dropped her off. She constantly called me, I woke up with 6 missed calls one day. Looking back it was bad the calls kept coming all day and night.
I met her a few more times at hers, she's alright but there's no potential for a relationship. She's quite rude, lied about having a job, keeps trying to get me to pay for KFCs and chippies (and no she isn't fat)
So anyway it took me months and months of ignoring calls and texts to get rid of her, this was all over Christmas and I pretty much got rid of her. I met another bird and things are going really well and we've began a relationship. Anyway only just lately the KFC bird started calling me again asking for me to do bad things to her. I decline her.
Anyway I've told the new girl this story too so she knows and trusts me. Should I be completely upfront with the KFC girl and tell her I'm with someone else and she how she takes it? She's definitely the angry, stalker type so I don't want to reject her.
Or should I keep ignoring her and hope she re-gets the message? I block her but she calls from private numbers. I don't want to change my number.
She only just started calling me again yesterday. She also introduced me to the kid on the third date and I feel such an idiot falling into that trap.
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