Le relationship thread (keeping it short)

blueshift · 14 Feb 2011 at 18:00

dont worry being single is great, i have bought my own flat, can do what i like , after 7 years of marriage, no GBH of the ear, and its all mine

, Go and enjoy yourself.

T1Cybernetic · 14 Feb 2011 at 18:00

Dj_Jestar said:
Get smashing any pasty that moves

That could work

I remember someone once saying (Do you know how many women I had to sleep with to get over you)

Don't remember what it's off but it made me lol

zebedeee · 14 Feb 2011 at 18:02

regulus said:
I said it in jest. Forgot to add a smiley. I'm well aware that things will get harder before it gets any easier. All her clothes and stuff is still here. Perhaps a part of me is still 'partnered' as you said. Maybe when everything is gone, everything else been sorted, maybe then reality will kick in hard. I merely had a good day today and it was nice for a change.

It's good that you had a good day, it make things feel easier and i'm all for that,
just got to keep up doing the things you like if you want to continue feeling good.
if my previous post brought you down at all then ignore it as i tend to have an ability to over analise stuff

blueshift · 14 Feb 2011 at 18:04

zebedeee said:
It's good that you had a good day, it make things feel easier and i'm all for that,
just got to keep up doing the things you like if you want to continue feeling good.
if my previous post brought you down at all then ignore it as i tend to have an ability to over analise stuff

Yeah me too, its not good

zebedeee · 14 Feb 2011 at 18:06

blueshift said:
Yeah me too, its not good

the only time it can be good is when someone is offering you a deal...
it's never good when it comes to matters of the heart

Luseac · 14 Feb 2011 at 18:46

Sounds like your mates are being totally awesome. That's something to be grateful for

jumpy · 15 Feb 2011 at 00:28

regulus said:
I merely had a good day today and it was nice for a change.

Good for you fella. Make sure you have lots more :cool:

as for the rest of you lot talking about a tendency to 'over analise' ...well, ahem... this is gd after all, but I hope you mean something different entirely

sounds like you've been watching too much brazzers haha

zebedeee · 15 Feb 2011 at 04:39

kinda depressin readin some of the threads lately on this site,

hope you get your life sorted regulus.

(wave)

Narj · 15 Feb 2011 at 10:04

blueshift said:
dont worry being single is great, i have bought my own flat, can do what i like , after 7 years of marriage, no GBH of the ear, and its all mine, Go and enjoy yourself.

This, I've now got my own house, am doing it up how I want, will have all the bachelor pad accessories I like (including a grand piano

), will have parties and mates over when I like - all without a woman hassling me or giving me earache.

vicisthebest · 15 Feb 2011 at 10:35

T1Cybernetic said:
I remember someone once saying (Do you know how many women I had to sleep with to get over you)

Don't remember what it's off but it made me lol

It was Joey from Friends. Coming up with a reason why he never called Monica and Chandler's adoption social worker. (Yes I'm a Friends geek!)

Tysonator · 15 Feb 2011 at 11:42

T1Cybernetic said:
That could work

I remember someone once saying (Do you know how many women I had to sleep with to get over you)

Don't remember what it's off but it made me lol

Good qoute,...wish I had used that a few times in my shady past !

edit;
Now the OP EX has moved out I think it is time to pack her sh*te into bags and boxes and either ask her to collect or store them in the garage for her easy removal on her next visit.
Show that you have move on and sever that tie with her. I agree with previous posts in this threads. Females are good a surviving and seem to always land on the feet even after a week of emotional tears !

Morba · 15 Feb 2011 at 12:05

I don't agree with the 'show you have moved on' stuff.
Show you are going to move on, but dont try and put across that you have moved on already, because you haven't. It will be obvious that you haven't.
I'm not saying break down in tears over her when she appears, but don't try to make out stuff that isn't true.

Metalface Mark · 15 Feb 2011 at 12:09

Theres no point showing or not showing you have moved on, its over one way or the other and theres no point ever going back, so if anything is being shown, it should be complete indifference.

As everything, harder to do in practise than it is in theory.

Morba · 15 Feb 2011 at 12:17

Metalface Mark said:
Theres no point showing or not showing you have moved on, its over one way or the other and theres no point ever going back, so if anything is being shown, it should be complete indifference.

As everything, harder to do in practise than it is in theory.

Yep. just box it up then when she comes show her where it is, maybe help her if needed. but dont put on a show of 'im over you' or 'i want you back'.