Love Yaaaa.....

[Talbs13]

Im sure this has been discussed before and i think i know the anwser.

My gf of 7 months has recently started saying "Love Ya" on all txt messages, emails, msn etc. She hasnt said it in real life though (yet?)?

I am sort of getting confused by it? Do you think thats a friendly Love You or does she actually "Love" Love me? lol i am so confused Maybe im thinking about it too much....

I find the subject uneasy to talk about? I suck at relationships, no no no, i FAIL at relationships. (fail boat please)

How do you approach this subject.........

EDIT - Apologies for this silly thread.......just need to vent or something.

 

[4p]

Too deep.

Get out while there's still time!

Umm well m8, a lot of birds i text put loads of xxxx and love ya crap

Nothing out of the ordinary here

 

[SideWinder]

Friendly but perhaps she cares a bit more than she used to?

 

[Tefal]

testing the waters?

 

[4p]

testing the waters?

Ping? Pong?!

 

[Talbs13]

Of course she does the usual xxxxxxxx at the end of messages lol but only recently she added some 'new words' at the end

Im just reading into it a bit too much! Girls.........headache r'us

 

[[TW]Fox]

I thought all girls said love as if it was just another word..

 

[Mad old tory]

I thought all girls said love as if it was just another word..

bingo, until they say love you to your face I wouldn't worry

 

[bushmins]

Whats a txt?

Love is a complicated thing. I think you grow (over years) to really love someone. Its also a word that shouldnt be used frivolously and some people, who understand its meaning, can be scared to use such a powerful word in an email etc... let alone saying it to someones face.

 

[gillywibble]

Simply reply 'Love ya 2s me Joolie in it'.

Then dump her.

 

[4p]

Simply reply 'Love ya 2s me Joolie in it'.

Then dump her.

Coventryyyyyyyy

 

[Gackt]

She used the 'ya' - she's being playful, friendly, cute. If she was saying "Love you." then perhaps, but she isn't.

 

[Van Hellseek]

She used the 'ya' - she's being playful, friendly, cute. If she was saying "Love you." then perhaps, but she isn't.

Yeah exactly, I get "Love ya" all the time from random girls at the end of messages. Doesn't mean a thing. :/

 

[Talbs13]

Simply reply 'Love ya 2s me Joolie in it'.

Then dump her.

Hahahaha that has made my day. I LOL'ed hard.

Thanks for your opinions. I will just wait and see what happens. I would say I love her but i dont even know what love is anymore.

 

[iamdjdz]

Text back with, 'Really? eh?'

Love ya....

 

[Nash]

I think you need to just ask her or work it out yourself, there is no one set language that women abide by. See, if a girlfriend of mine wrote "love ya" on the end of a text I'd think she wasn't very good at spelling and grammar. My girlfriend writes "love you" as that's how to spell it In the rare occasion that she needed to condense a text message she'd abbreviate "you" to "j0", just like I taught her <3

 

[Surfer]

shes testing the waters!!! she doesnt feel brave enough to say it properly because she is unsure how you feel.

Looks like you will be having a serious chat with the gf soon

 

[Talbs13]

Lol incoming fail boat! I suck at 'relationship' chats as i just *FREEZE* and dont say anything. How did i get a GF? lol

She is a keeper......in my eyes.

 

[Cr0fty]

It goes, ly, ily, love ya, love you, i love you, i love you millions.

If you get to the final stage you're practically married tbh

 

[Hxc]

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We're no strangers to love
You know the rules and so do I
A full commitment's what's I'm thinking of
You wouldn't get this from any other guy