Male's point of view please!!

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Ok here it is........ im not saying it is about me or a mate just think what you want ok LOL :p

I want a Male's view of it!

A lass goes out drinking and gets talking to a lad who is about 12 yrs younger than her but he looks a bit older and she looks younger ok!! They snog etc etc and arrange to meet next week, they meet up again and meet up a few times more.. they sleep together and he rings her and texts her all the time.. then he stops ringing and texting....... why? he was the one who was running after her etc etc.. but then after 3 weeks he gets back in touch and says he had afew family issues etc and want to meet up again next week!

Is this because he is after a leg over or he really did have family stuff!
end of the day he did run after her and ring her all the time.. ahh also
last time they were out drinking a lad was flirting with her who she knew and the lad kicked off and got all jealous lol

Advice wud be good from a males point of vieW!
 
Andrea75 said:
Ok here it is........ im not saying it is about me or a mate just think what you want ok LOL :p

I want a Male's view of it!

A lass goes out drinking and gets talking to a lad who is about 12 yrs younger than her but he looks a bit older and she looks younger ok!! They snog etc etc and arrange to meet next week, they meet up again and meet up a few times more.. they sleep together and he rings her and texts her all the time.. then he stops ringing and texting....... why? he was the one who was running after her etc etc.. but then after 3 weeks he gets back in touch and says he had afew family issues etc and want to meet up again next week!

Is this because he is after a leg over or he really did have family stuff!
end of the day he did run after her and ring her all the time.. ahh also
last time they were out drinking a lad was flirting with her who she knew and the lad kicked off and got all jealous lol

Advice wud be good from a males point of vieW!
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If he had family stuff he would have told said girl, since he always rang/text.

Seems like he wants a "run to leg over, kind of girl".
 
so andrea75... i'm taking a WILD stab in the dark here and saying he's twelve years younger than you... making your toyboy 23! am i right? he's not likely to be a keeper is he, but there are exceptions to the rule i suppose

B@
 
B@Th*nG said:
so andrea75... i'm taking a WILD stab in the dark here and saying he's twelve years younger than you... making your toyboy 23! am i right? he's not likely to be a keeper is he, but there are exceptions to the rule i suppose

B@
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lol
 
well..........1. he knew how old she was
2. she mentioned to him was it a one night stand and he said no he didnt want that.
3. He had tried to ring but my her phone was off and when she checked the phone this is right he had tried to ring her....

MEN! haha/.//like i say though didnt say it was me or mate just asking
thanks Boys :p
 
B@Th*nG said:
so andrea75... i'm taking a WILD stab in the dark here and saying he's twelve years younger than you... making your toyboy 23! am i right? he's not likely to be a keeper is he, but there are exceptions to the rule i suppose

B@
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i didnt say it was me nah he er,m 21 yrs old and the person is 34... yikes 13 yrs
 
Oh ffs, now with women on the forums we have to deal with THEIR relationship problems as well?

Being that your username is Andrea75 your fella is 23. LOL.

He's just going after older women because he's in a dry patch with those of his own age. He was jealous because he was protecting his investment for the night. Was he buying all the drinks per chance?
 
Andrea75 said:
well..........1. he knew how old she was
2. she mentioned to him was it a one night stand and he said no he didnt want that.
3. He had tried to ring but my her phone was off and when she checked the phone this is right he had tried to ring her....

MEN! haha/.//like i say though didnt say it was me or mate just asking
thanks Boys :p
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you forgot to delete 'my' :D
 
he's using her as a back up for the regular ride but would drop her like a hot potato should something younger come along and she will probably go along with it, he knows this and will ride that gravy train for aslong as he can.
 
Sounds like bs to me

oh I had family issues , that's why I didn't contact you for 3 weeks...


If I really liked someone and they liked me then I wouldn't go awol for 3 weeks unless it was physically impossible to contact them
 
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