Marriage?

nathanael91

nathanael91

nathanael91

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Hi I'm Nathanael

I am 22 years old and I have found someone who I've been dating for about 2 years. I'm a musician in the army and well there is a lot of travelling involved so I don't know why she is still with me.

I am wanting to change my career in the army and pursue life being a chef.

I wanted to post this thread because I want to know what other people think about marriage. Was it worth it or not? I base my life around the opinion of others and try to become a better person as much as I can.

I am someone who believes in only marrying once in my life time.

Should I be scared or excited if I am wanting to marry this person?
 
She is 27, calls me normal and not strange so leaving her is out of the question.
I'm hoping to marry in about a year and a half or 2 years. I don't want to **** this up on my behalf.
 
also i forgot to mention. Since we have been dating we have both lived in different countries, myself in Colchester and her in Paris.

Long distance is pretty hard especially if your not seeing her for a month although you do get plenty of game time :) just not much sex.
 
As far as other people's opinions matter, my life has been pretty messed up for example my brother and sisters were taken away from my parents before I was born. When I was 3 years old I had the mentality of a one and a half year so I want to be as wise as an old man and not make any wrong decisions if I know any better.
 
Thing is well since she is 27 and in a couple of years wants to get a baby so that's why I bring up the question of marriage. I would feel better to be married and then have a child rather than the other way round.
I had a Christian upbringing so I think it has had a major influence in the right way over my life.
 
In January 2014 we will both be living together in Chelmsford. We have got a nice apartment there to rent. Although this whole situation with army band is getting worse and worse.
 
I understand that a lot of people might think that it's too young, all I've wanted was to find that right person for me. I never really wanted to sleep around with as many woman as I can. I lost my virginity last year with her because I wanted to find someone who was pretty cool and funny to be with.

My parents got married and had kids at my age, I just dont want to this an old father when my kids are still growing up.

Trust me being single is good fun but deep down inside of you there is something that digs away telling you to find someone to share your life with and not be alone.

I do appreciate all the comments, it's given me food for thought.
 
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