hi i have a new system i9 12900k on msi mpg z690 edge ddr4, and some new corsair vengence 2x16gb 4600mhz ram, now the pc wont boot in xmp @4600, so i have been testing the ram in bios, i know what gear1 ans 2 do, but cant figure out what is the best solution for me, i can oc the ram manually to 4566, if someone could explain in easy terms whats best, the function memory try it bios is what i have been using, this gear 1 and 2 is new to me thanks....