after 4 hours of playing around with winamp i uninstalled it, its way to much for what i wanted. cant fault the player its briilliant, thanks to everyone loads of comments really helped.
im now using kmplayer which i also use for my videos etc.
i wanted not a media library but a basic player that would play any file and look stylish, i always know what i want to listen to!! so basic open music>play>close after.
which after a an hour or so found that kmplayer will do that for me same as wmp did but will play all files.
again thanks for so many replies